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Happy Monday morning everyone,
I hope your week is off to a good start.
Nothing special happening around here today. Just balancing out the check book.
Anyone have plans for the Labor day weekend?
Ohhhhh, Kathy! You're doing it all wrong! Live life on the edge! Step up to Concierge, or the Roy AND Walt Suites! Don't bother balancing the checkbook. If there is a REAL problem ... the bank will send someone to your house to let you know. Sometimes, they send someone in a very nice uniform, with badge, billy club, and fancy side arm!
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DW invited her sister (plus sister's fiancee), as well as our son and his girlfriend over for the day. DW says it was for Labor Day, but I think she wants them for LABOR (manpower). We had new windows installed on the front of the house ... needed help to move furniture out of three rooms ... now need help to get it moved back. This ... after having picked up new family room furniture ... needed to move the existing stuff to the garage (Craigslist, here we come). We're in the process of getting the front of the garage ripped off (replaced), and a new front porch ... I'm not sure where we are putting the stuff. There isn't a room in the house which does not have something in it from another room. It's like a rotating furniture store / thrift store.
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Speaking of next cruise, DW and I were hoping to book the West Coast REPO (May 2014), followed by the first Alaska Cruise of the season, which would now include Sitka ... turning the 7-night cruise into a 9-night cruise. We like to hit the specialty cruises whenever possible ... and doing a B2B is always very nice. Unfortunately, the price for the Sitka cruise proved to be outrageous, so we booked the 5 night REPO cruise as a dummy (San Diego to San Francisco to Vancouver). We figured we could spend a few days in San Diego ... and hit D/Land either befor or after the cruise ... with possible few days in Vancouver, or bounce back to Seattle.
The cruise was booked as a Secret NAV Verandah, at about $730 pp ... which has now increased to over $1,300 pp. Since we have sailed on Celebrity, Holland America and Princess, we are getting promotions for 7-night cruises for typical Caribbean cruises for about $700-$729 pp. We are not sure whether we should stay with DCL for a unique (albeit, shorter) cruise ... or switch to a "decent" cruise line for a longer cruise, albeit, common ports of call. Of course, if we switched to another cruise line, we would change out DCL REPO to a dummy, and push the date back further, in anticipation of DCL's return to Hawaii.
Any thoughts on what YOU night do? Stay on the DCL 5 night cruise ... spend a little extra to fly from home (Northeast US) to reach west coast ... as well as more money for pre/post cruise stay in Vancouver or California? On the other hand, if we sail on another line, we would sail out of Florida ... save money on airfare ... but get a (mostly) ho-hum itinerary ... though some add an interesting port of call. Your thoughts?
Steven
Update on DW (Donna):
As some of you may know, Donna aggravated a heal spur in a low speed 2007 auto accident. The spur was never an issue, until the accident. There is SMALL litigation STILL ongoing from the 2007 accident (mostly, to cover medical bills, and damages to our car).
FAST FORWARD 6-7 years: Donna fell walking down the basement stairs, as a result of the heal spur. She sustained abrasions and contusions on her elbow, as well as her shin. Within minutes after falling, her leg swelled up to about 2x the normal size. She was taken to the local ER by ambulance, as she was in extreme pain (screaming LOUDER than child birth). X-rays were negative, but we were told the excessive swelling did not shown the bone (swelling was too large). Within a day or so, a hematoma started to develop on her shin ... which eventually grew to about 2" x 4". After about one week, the family Doctor removed the skin, which (essentially) turned the hematoma into a 2nd degree burn (no skin) ... which fosters bacteria growth. Family Doctor prescribed a Fracture Boot to help he walk ... but the sides of the boot caused too much pressure on the sides of her leg. At this point, I was driving DW to, and from work every day.
The swelling was still excessive ... an MRI was ordered. Insurance company denied the MRI request, citing she should first obtain an X-ray (DUH, they could not read). Because of this delay, DW was forced to go back to the ER, due to intense swelling and pain. ER could not order an MRI, but ordered an UltraSound ... which proved to be negative. MRI was re-ordered ... which was negative for a fracture.
After the family doctor looked at the MRI, she saw points of internal pooling of liquids (blood or puss), and this past Wednesday, ordered her to an Orthoaedist immediately. Due to personal contacts, I was able to contact an Orthopaedic Surgeon acquaintance of mine, who was able to get her in to his office within 24 hours. Upon seeing her leg and the MRI, he said she needed EMERGENCY SURGERY ... the NEXT DAY. He would not wait until after Labor Day ... not would he wait until the weekend.
We were fortunate enough to have recently had bloodwork tests performed ... left an overnight message for family doctor to make copies, and submit referral to the hospital. We arrived at the hospital at 1PM this past Friday ... went through intake ... and went under the knife a few hours later.
The Orthopaedic Surgeon put his scalpel on the heavily inflamed area ... and it literally POPPED ... like an over-sized ZIT on a young teen (surgeon was thankful for wearing a full face shield). The Ortho Surgeon was able to have a Vascular Surgeon observed the surgery, to check on possible internal damage. Luckily, there were no obvious signs of internal damage. Her leg was wrapped up, and ordered to return for follow-up visit to Orthopaedist on Tuesday, and Vascular Surgeon on Friday (remember, most everything was now closed, until Tuesday AM). Interesting enough, the surgery lasted a whopping TWELVE minutes!
Mind you, the surgery was completed after hours, Friday night. Two prescriptions were ordered (controlled substances) .. which would need to be filled on Saturday. We went to Costco on Saturday morning ... they refused to fill the prescriptions, unless Donna was there in person (not going to happen). To add insult to injury, PA law requires pharmacists to verify controlled substance prescriptions, and the local Costco received answering machines of the two Doctors who wrote the prescriptions. For some reason, they did not press "0" to reach a Doctor (who would have been able to confirm the scripts). To make a long story short, I made 4 trips to Costco, after having called the Pharmacist Manager an A%%hole, and complained to the Store Manager. A discussion ensured between the Pharmacists MGR and Store MGR ... and the Pharmacist agree to fill two of the prescriptions, after being able to confirm one script with one Doctor (but still refused to call the 2nd Doctor).
The Vascular Surgeon was leaving the state on Saturday, and would not be returning until Friday AM. He ordered DW to schedule an appointment for Friday ... regardless of whether there was an opening. Because of there the damage is located on the skin, there is very little fatty tissue ... very little blood vessels, and almost no possibility for blood flow to regenerate a scab and or new skin. This means, skin grafts are iminent!
Had DW broken her leg, it would have healed in 6-10 weeks, with moderate pain. Since this was actually a DEEP MUSCLE/TISSUE injury, recovery time is 8-12 weeks ... not sure hoe much time for the skin graft to take hold.
DW and I feel like a one-armed paper hanger ... so much to do ... but almost impossible to get stuff done, because of issues with not being ambulatory.
We were fortunate to have recently acquired a reclining, cushioned chair, which has the ability to elevate the feet, and recline almost flat. That helps DW *enormously* since she has to keep her leg elevated above her heart.
We are spending out time looking at cruises ... hoping to keep our minds off of issues at hand.
We've been handed a bushel of lemons ... and are trying to make a boatload of lemonade. Can't wait for our next cruise!
Steven
Update on DW (Donna):
As some of you may know, Donna aggravated a heal spur in a low speed 2007 auto accident. The spur was never an issue, until the accident. There is SMALL litigation STILL ongoing from the 2007 accident (mostly, to cover medical bills, and damages to our car).
FAST FORWARD 6-7 years: Donna fell walking down the basement stairs, as a result of the heal spur. She sustained abrasions and contusions on her elbow, as well as her shin. Within minutes after falling, her leg swelled up to about 2x the normal size. She was taken to the local ER by ambulance, as she was in extreme pain (screaming LOUDER than child birth). X-rays were negative, but we were told the excessive swelling did not shown the bone (swelling was too large). Within a day or so, a hematoma started to develop on her shin ... which eventually grew to about 2" x 4". After about one week, the family Doctor removed the skin, which (essentially) turned the hematoma into a 2nd degree burn (no skin) ... which fosters bacteria growth. Family Doctor prescribed a Fracture Boot to help he walk ... but the sides of the boot caused too much pressure on the sides of her leg. At this point, I was driving DW to, and from work every day.
The swelling was still excessive ... an MRI was ordered. Insurance company denied the MRI request, citing she should first obtain an X-ray (DUH, they could not read). Because of this delay, DW was forced to go back to the ER, due to intense swelling and pain. ER could not order an MRI, but ordered an UltraSound ... which proved to be negative. MRI was re-ordered ... which was negative for a fracture.
After the family doctor looked at the MRI, she saw points of internal pooling of liquids (blood or puss), and this past Wednesday, ordered her to an Orthoaedist immediately. Due to personal contacts, I was able to contact an Orthopaedic Surgeon acquaintance of mine, who was able to get her in to his office within 24 hours. Upon seeing her leg and the MRI, he said she needed EMERGENCY SURGERY ... the NEXT DAY. He would not wait until after Labor Day ... not would he wait until the weekend.
We were fortunate enough to have recently had bloodwork tests performed ... left an overnight message for family doctor to make copies, and submit referral to the hospital. We arrived at the hospital at 1PM this past Friday ... went through intake ... and went under the knife a few hours later.
The Orthopaedic Surgeon put his scalpel on the heavily inflamed area ... and it literally POPPED ... like an over-sized ZIT on a young teen (surgeon was thankful for wearing a full face shield). The Ortho Surgeon was able to have a Vascular Surgeon observed the surgery, to check on possible internal damage. Luckily, there were no obvious signs of internal damage. Her leg was wrapped up, and ordered to return for follow-up visit to Orthopaedist on Tuesday, and Vascular Surgeon on Friday (remember, most everything was now closed, until Tuesday AM). Interesting enough, the surgery lasted a whopping TWELVE minutes!
Mind you, the surgery was completed after hours, Friday night. Two prescriptions were ordered (controlled substances) .. which would need to be filled on Saturday. We went to Costco on Saturday morning ... they refused to fill the prescriptions, unless Donna was there in person (not going to happen). To add insult to injury, PA law requires pharmacists to verify controlled substance prescriptions, and the local Costco received answering machines of the two Doctors who wrote the prescriptions. For some reason, they did not press "0" to reach a Doctor (who would have been able to confirm the scripts). To make a long story short, I made 4 trips to Costco, after having called the Pharmacist Manager an A%%hole, and complained to the Store Manager. A discussion ensured between the Pharmacists MGR and Store MGR ... and the Pharmacist agree to fill two of the prescriptions, after being able to confirm one script with one Doctor (but still refused to call the 2nd Doctor).
The Vascular Surgeon was leaving the state on Saturday, and would not be returning until Friday AM. He ordered DW to schedule an appointment for Friday ... regardless of whether there was an opening. Because of there the damage is located on the skin, there is very little fatty tissue ... very little blood vessels, and almost no possibility for blood flow to regenerate a scab and or new skin. This means, skin grafts are iminent!
Had DW broken her leg, it would have healed in 6-10 weeks, with moderate pain. Since this was actually a DEEP MUSCLE/TISSUE injury, recovery time is 8-12 weeks ... not sure hoe much time for the skin graft to take hold.
DW and I feel like a one-armed paper hanger ... so much to do ... but almost impossible to get stuff done, because of issues with not being ambulatory.
We were fortunate to have recently acquired a reclining, cushioned chair, which has the ability to elevate the feet, and recline almost flat. That helps DW *enormously* since she has to keep her leg elevated above her heart.
We are spending out time looking at cruises ... hoping to keep our minds off of issues at hand.
We've been handed a bushel of lemons ... and are trying to make a boatload of lemonade. Can't wait for our next cruise!
Steven
Have you looked at the cruises from Baltimore, New York orNew Jersey? Would save the expense of air fare but would add port parking?