I don't have my FE list in front of me to see how many people are in your party nor do I know how much luggage you might have, but we are driving and not opposed to lending a hand if we can accommodate you and your things.
As to which park - it really depends on you and your child. EPCOT has a great program for kids in World Showcase that makes it a lot of fun - even for little ones. Her height would be a determinant in the rides. AK has some great stuff for little people as well, but I think MK has the most rides that people can do. I personally don't think a hopper is worth it for one day at that time of year. I hardly think it is worth it for one day even when the parks are open longer hours. DHS also has things worthwhile for little ones, but I think you get more bang for your buck at MK.
Thank you for the kind offer- it is just the 2 of us on this leg of the trip.... as far as or luggage.... With stroller and car seat not sure just yet. But if I can minimize my packing
( I am such an over-packer). i will pm you later as we get closer to cruise date and i start packing...thanks again
have you considered just using the disney transfers for all legs of your trip that way you do not have to deal with your luggage at all they handle all of it including carseat and stroller as long as you put DME and luggage tags on them