Although dealing with the aftermath of the plane crash was very difficult for my husband and nephew, and all of the other non-professional people involved in the efforts, it turned out to be an amazing, life changing event for us. Some of you may have read our story in the news at the time. This will be a long post but Ill share with all of you what happened.
The Alaska Airlines flight crashed into the ocean just off our coast in the late afternoon. Immediately a Coast Guard request went out to all the local fishing boats at sea to come and lend aid. Unfortunately what started as a rescue mission turned into a recovery mission. My nephew was out on one of our boats that night and was one of the first on the scene. It was horrible, but those wonderful fishermen spent the entire night searching for survivors and pulling debris from the ocean. By 5 a.m. the next day, my nephew was exhausted and having transferred all the items he collected to the main recovery vessel he headed to the harbor. Later that morning, he and my DH went down to clean the boat and in one of the hatch handles, my nephew saw something shining in the sunlight. It was a mans gold Mason Ring. Immediately he showed DH and he called the authorities, but it was so chaotic at that point no one could tell him what to do. He brought it home and we waited for instructions.
Meanwhile in the newspaper a list of the passengers onboard had been printed. Two of the men listed were reported to be leaders of there local Masons organization. My hair stood on end when I read that they were from Poulsbo, WA. It just happened to be the same tiny town in Washington where my nephews father lived and where he had lived before returning to California. All of the sudden I just felt we were part of something so much greater than we could understand. After a few phone calls we connected to a gentleman who was a fellow Mason and he immediately knew which of the men the ring had belonged to. Within the hour the daughter made contact with my DH and they both sat crying on the phone as she told him how just a few weeks before, she and her father had made an agreement that whoever should pass first would try to get a message back saying they were OK. It was one of the most moving and amazing moments of my life. I have always considered myself a religious person and a strong believer in God, but this was something so overpowering I just cant describe it.
We contacted Alaska Airlines and they immediately started to make arrangements to fly my nephew up to Washington to personally return the ring to the family. Meanwhile, it became the front page story and we were overrun by the media. Even with my background in PR, I was overwhelmed by the attention. DH and nephew were on CNN and did numerous local interviews. Good Morning America and the Today show both wanted them be interviewed, but we really felt that enough was enough. This was not about publicity, it was about helping a grieving family who had just lost their mother and father.
Enter the local sheriffs department at this point. Although we had kept the authorities apprised at each step, they were now concerned about evidence being improperly handled. While I can understand, this had become something unique and important and the only thing on our mind was getting the ring in the hands of that family as soon as possible. We thought we had everything ironed out when while I was home alone with my DD two detectives showed up demanding the ring. When I refused to give it to them they started proceedings to arrest me. The family had specifically instructed us not to hand the ring over as they were afraid that it would be lost or delayed for months and months so I was fully prepared to get arrested if I had to. At that point we had formed a strong bond with the family and I was determined to put their desires first. News vans in the area had picked up on the fact that the sheriffs were at our home and started to arrive. Calls were placed to the head of the sheriffs department and at that point his detectives were called off and it was agreed we could proceed with the return of the ring as the coroner had confirmed he did not need the actual ring as long as he had a photo. That night, I was the one on the news holding my infant daughter in my arms explaining why I was almost arrested!
The next day, Alaska Airlines flew my nephew to Poulsbo and the ring was turned over to the family in a moving and lovely candlelight ceremony at the Masonic temple there. We still keep in touch with the family today and have joined them in honoring their loved ones at the local memorial dedicated to the crash victims. For the rest of my life I will always feel like we were involved in something very special and remember the son's comment to my nephew that When its a miracle, gold floats.