Hello everyone! My DH, I & DS (6) will be onboard with you as first timers (if you don't count DH deployments with the US Navy)! I am beyond excited and nervous as all get out!
I would love to hear any advise you have for us and I would love to discover more about possibly participating in a "Fish Extender"--I know last minute...like I said, newbie!
First and Foremost:
Thank you and your husband for your service. As a 20 year AF veteran I know deployments are not fun. I was thankfully only deployed a few times.
Now we can complain Disney didnt give us MIL rates!
10 items of advice:
1. You cannot do it all. You just cannot and enjoy yourself. Our Fantasy cruise just 4 short months ago was our 13th overall and there are still things we are eager to go back and do.
2. Read up on the ports we are visiting and what might interest you. There is so much information available on the internet. Don t settle for just what the cruise offers for excursions.
3. Buy cruise insurance. I live 15-20 minutes from Port Canaveral and within three hours of any Florida port yet I ALWAYS buy cruise or I should say
trip insurance. Twice now I have watched a helicopter came pick up someone off a cruise ship. I think the starting price is around $10,000. Fall down the stairs, slip on water, didnt see the bulkhead, etc and next thing you know the helicopter is coming for you. Do you have $10K? $25K? Cruise insurance is much cheaper.
4. Every night you will get a menu of tomorrows activities called the navigator. Read it, highlight it, talk about it, or ignore it but understand that is the next days activities. My wife and I usually ignore it. We cruise to avoid schedules.
5. Ref #4, Dont plan too much. Our first cruise we tried to make WAY too many deadlines and it was stressful. Go with the flow, maybe surge here, maybe relax there.
6. Ask questions before you cruise. I have one
Disney cruise but 13 total cruises. Yes the offerings on each line are different but what to pack, expect, or plan for are mostly similar.
7. Write a packing list and check off items as you pack them. Not that I am some guru of cruise packing but I usually copy/paste our packing list to any cruise I am going on. We are very slowly (very SLOWLY!) breaking ourselves of overpacking. Hey, we live 20 minutes from Port Canaveral so it is always our car that we have to cram the bags into. Make sure you highlight important things like medicine, glasses, shoes (ask my wife and not me!), and any other item you cannot easily replace. You forget a t-shirt, Mickey has one for ya. You forget your glasses, not so easy.
8. Room service is free but you should tip the person. $1 or $2 per order is all we do but it is just the two of us. Scale up if your order does.
Two favorite tips to go!
9. Explore the ship!! Yeah sounds easy but go and explore. Open doors, walk down hallways that seem to go nowhere, find something new. First things first, If it says prohibited, DO NOT ENTER!!!. Second things second, if it says crew area, DO NOT ENTER. If there is not sign and it is not locked, it is a public area. Dont be afraid to see what might be behind the door. Lots of ships have secret areas like the helicopter area or other secret doors which lead to quiet areas where you can enjoy the beauty and wonder of the ocean without the noise of humanity.
10. The crew on the ship are people just like you, they put their pants on one leg at a time.. Treat them like people and not servants and you will be richly rewarded with their charm and courtesy. You know what else? They live on your floating hotel for seven days and have been to the ports way more times they you have. Be gracious, respectful, and polite and I bet they would do just about anything within their power to make your cruise great. Ask and you may receive but please be prepared to compensate your staff if they meet your needs. Our last dining room team were one of the best we ever had so this cruise we requested them again. Courtesy and respect go a long way.
I dont really understand the whole fish extender thing but the FEs on the ship are really cool.