C.Ann, you and your daughter are in my thoughts often, and in my prayers every day.
I am so sorry she had such a adverse reaction to the medications. Thank God she was coherent enought to realize she was in trouble.
And I realize what a rough position you are in by not being able to take time off to be with her, but like Elaine said, I am sure when she is feeling better she will realize it is not because you don't want to be with her.
I will continue to keep you both in my prayers, and I am sending {{HUGS}} your way.