Thank you, thank you, thank you for this advice. We have done the DDP for the past two years and my husband loves it. I think it is WAY too much -- 3 sit down meals a day and 2 snacks per person!

We tend to be park people with maybe an afternoon or two at the hotel. So, reading your feedback, I don't think club level would be worth it. DH is pretty stubborn and it insisting on the dining plan. He likes the convenience of it and says he won't have to worry. We will have paid about $2500 for meals on the dining plan for a 9 night stay for 2 adults and 2 kids -- that is about 20 weeks of grocery shopping! I agree, it is totally not worth it. I think I can convince him to do the regular dining plan. He likes to do 2 sit downs a day. I wish that was an option on the dining plan.
Thanks again! We are excited to try the Beach Club. We have a 6 year old and an 8 year old. They should love the pool! We stayed at WL our first year and while it was nice, we were underwhelmed. It is a gorgeous resort but the pool is eh. We stayed at POR last year and missed the deluxe resorts - the beds were uncomfortable there and it was WAY too big. I love that beach club is close to two parks.
I love this thread -- thanks everyone!