But yet the very description you posted pretty clearly rules out your whole "sit down dinner" thinking!
"Wander among tempting
tasting stations in the midst of imaginative décor and live entertainment"
The word Wander doesn't mean "sit at a table as if you are at a buffet" or "sit-down dinner" to me, does it to you??? And "tasting stations" is also another clue that this is not intended as a sit-down dinner.
The final clue is THERE AREN'T ENOUGH TABLES FOR EVERYONE TO SIT DOWN AT ONCE!!! Geesh!
First off, I wasn't disrespectful of your opinion, I simply stated my own.
If you like to wander and then *ask* to sit down with a party or sit at a vacant table in the style of a cocktail party then by all means do so

In the same token, if my party chooses to keep the same table all evening I am equally able to do so.
I've said it once and I'll say it again, there are NO official protocols for The Party for the Senses, NEITHER of us is *RIGHT*. In my opinion the fact that the Party offers both high top and low top tables shows that the event isn't classified as EITHER cocktail or sitdown, as these tables leave guests with the ability to choose their own course of action. We each have our own opinion on the topic and what I stated, politely and with tact I might add, was that "to each his own" is the best course of action when approaching the Party and seating.
As far as the word WANDER, do i move from station to station collecting food & wine as well as conversing with the chefs and vineyard representatives? Absolutely. But when I've collected what I want i return to my table and sat. It was the same table the whole evening and typically we'd send 2 members of the party to wander each "round" with everyone taking turns wandering and exploring while still having a home base to return to.
I will also add, that if you look at the accounts from the Party of Oct 4th and the one on Oct 11th you will see that numerous posters report that there were multiple untouched tables at each event. It was only last weeks Party where there was any chair controversy and it seemed minimal at that. So at 2 out of the 3 parties held so far this year there WAS enough seating for EVERYONE all at once.
In addition, "Tasting stations" in no way indicates cocktail party or sit down dinner. In fact, there is a poster a page or 2 back that reviewed the City Taste event....where there were the exact same "tasting stations" set up as the Party for the Senses yet the guests were provided with full size portions, more like a sit down dinner.
EDIT: My DDad wanted to add that if there are issues with lacking seating, or confusion as to whether the party is cocktail or sitdown that is an issue with DISNEY. There is no reason to attack one another, we are each stating our opinion. But the issues does not lie with guests and how they choose to approach the event for which they ALL paid $135/each. Responsibility lies solely and fundamentally with Disney.