I did the same thing, went way over on mileage believing I would buy the car out at the end. I didn't, bought another used car and tacked the mileage penalty on top of the used car's price. DUMB, DUMB, DUMB.
I did the same thing. Except for some mystifying reason I thought they were *waiving* the fees. they were not. Huh, no wonder my lease cost was higher.
Oh, and then I did it again. Still not realizing that they were folding it ALL into my payments. Would you believe I read the documents over, thinking I was understanding them, repeatedly?
We did it again on our van DUMBER, DUMBER, DUMBER, but this time we are going to buy it, even though the vehicle's value has dropped and is not worth the residual value of the lease--the mfg no longer even makes the van. We love it, but apparently no one else wants them.
If I were you, I would buy the vehicle.