XYSRUS
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I am going through this exact same thing with my mom!! I have 2 DDs (7 & 8) and we recently moved back in with my mom because she got sick and couldn't handle the bills because she couldn't work full time anymore. She is absolutely wonderful with my older DD but doesn't give my younger DD the time of day. And every time I say something, she tells me that my younger DD doesn't listen and gives her a hard time. The other day the girls were outside playing and my mom asked my older DD if she wanted to go to the stores and ran some errands with her. My DD said no but younger DD came running over to the car and asked if she could go and my mom told her no, to play with her friends!! It makes me SO MAD!! So mad that I'm actually considering moving back out just to not put my DD through this anymore!!
IMO- I say you should consider moving out. You should stop this unhealthy relationship. It's the same way in my family! My responsibility is to my immediate family now. Mom is taken care of but she is on the back burner. No one-especially family, should treat each other this way. Look over all the adults now talking about their lives are affected now by the way they were treated as children. Something to think about? Maybe....Good luck!
the other grandchildren all get to do this they say we send him cards with money in it money does not take the place of love he knows his grandparents do things with the other kids he's seen it he's a little kid smart great at sports and likes to help out with chores it's their loss he loss his granma last year who took him everywhere his dad asked them to spend time with his son they were like oh that again 
