In 2006 we were on the DDP. My DD didn't qualify as she was under 3 yrs old too. Basically she would eat a bit off everyone's plates...mine, DHs and DS's. We always ordered her own beverage, and the only place that charged us for milk was Whispering Canyon. I didn't expect the free beverage, but it was nice. I never knew about the free toddler meals, but there was always more than enough food that even with sharing with her we all left full.