Because I see the women in my family trying to pay off the college debt they accrued. They are not working because they are raising kids. I care because I have a daughter who I am trying to advise. I care because I am a woman questioning the way my life panned out.
Education is great, even if only for its own sake.
Mods: not sure if this counts as political or not. If so please delete. I don't want to get an infraction for this. Thanks.
Don't get me wrong...I'm all for women getting a higher education but I have seen too many women get a bachelor's and then a master's degree (and the debt that goes with it) and then turn around and become stay-at-home moms running a cake decorating or stationary business.
Have you seen this "trend"? I have seen it all too many times and I wonder why women get trapped in this. I have seen executive women bankers with advanced degrees just give it all up to raise famillies (which I'm all for as well)
My cousin racked up debt getting her master's and now plays pat-a cake with her 2 year (for a living!)
Again, stay at home moms make the world go round....but aren't we women (the majority) made for running the family business as opposed to running the corporate business? It looks like mother nature has the final say, right?
Please note: my intention is not to have a stay-home vs. work mom thread at all. I believe you have to do what works for you and both are noble. I'm just questioning why women get degrees and debt and then end up not using them.
I'm just throwing it out there to see if anyone has an opinion.
Because I see the women in my family trying to pay off the college debt they accrued. They are not working because they are raising kids. I care because I have a daughter who I am trying to advise. I care because I am a woman questioning the way my life panned out.
Because I see the women in my family trying to pay off the college debt they accrued. They are not working because they are raising kids. I care because I have a daughter who I am trying to advise. I care because I am a woman questioning the way my life panned out.
You know what that leads to? A whole bunch of frustration!
I am 48 and getting back in and have no contacts, marketable skills really, however that is not going to stop me.
I have vowed to only look forward. I will succeed because I am not going to give up. Eventually I will be hired, work, and then I will begin to gain my "working life" back. I have had several part time jobs and volunteering so I am not devoid of all skills however.
In short, "Don't Look Back, You Are Not Going That Way".
Beating yourself up is just not useful. Examining every angle is exhausting.
Just live in the reality you have placed yourself and go forward.
It's about choice. No one should be unprepared. No one can predict the future. In 2014, everyone needs vocational training or a degree. If you want to be competitive in many fields, an advanced degree is pretty much essential too.But both will have had an education, job skills and experience, so staying home with their children will be their choice, not their only option.
Again, stay at home moms make the world go round....but aren't we women (the majority) made for running the family business as opposed to running the corporate business? It looks like mother nature has the final say, right?
Why do you care?
And this is highly offensive, not to mention anecdotal and not backed up by any statistics, studies, etc. This post feels like stepping back to 1954.
you've missed the point. Why does the OP care what other people do with their time, energy and money? You've quoted my response, which I am also free to post.
Women get it from all sides, no matter what choice we make. This is a pointless debate--there are no winners. Ever.
There are many here who are having an intelligent conversation about the subject. No one is looking to "win". My goodness, this is a community board where everything is discussed. If we are not supposed to "care" about anything all discussion boards should just cease to exist.
My cousin racked up debt getting her master's and now plays pat-a cake with her 2 year (for a living!)
--Get your education finished when you are young. Later when you have a family, it is MUCH harder to do it.
--Choose a field where you can work part-time. It is so much easier to have that flexibility when raising children.
--Look at the list of 'top jobs' in the country. Think about choosing from that list.
Thakn you for your respectful comments. There are many people that are "projecting" with anger and bitterness. If I knew that I would have never started this thread. Thank you to all who replied.