NikitaZee
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- Jun 9, 2009
Don't worry, it takes a lot for me to be offended by strangers. Definitely no ham at my table, luckily DH doesn't eat it either. The problem I have with DS eating something different than the rest of us is that I know it would turn into him NEVER eating what we have. It's not a question of him really hating something we're having, and it being the only option, it's him not giving most anything a chance. Ever. Also, f I started letting him have something different, they're all going to want something different. Even though the other two will eat most things, they'd still prefer to eat cereal or PB every night if it were an option. Now i'm back to the short order cook or just cooking for DH and I and letting the other 3 have whatever they want.
My parents option wasn't one meal or no meal, it was just eat it. I would have preferred to go hungry than eat the meat (really wouldn't be hungry though, i'd eat the sides, something DS generally still won't do. But they forced the meat issue.) Which is why I wont' force it, just won't make anything else.
Fair enough, I can see everyone wanting something different if one kid gets it ... that happens at my house now and then!