Wishing on a star
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- Aug 7, 2002
I agree with the above... I think that any parent, especially one of girls this age, might have some of that general fear or concern in their mind.
I did not assume that the OP was thinking that this guy was some kind of sexual predator.
And, the guy is just not going to be moving into their home.
But, IF he were to move in, then who knows what other friends/girlfriends might come and go.
It is just that you never know.
And, with the husbands issues regarding his brother and family, I would not automatically assume that "if he trust them, I trust them..."
Many of us pointed out how the husbands feelings and views could be very skewed when it comes to this brother.
OP, I am so glad that things seem to be working out!
PS: I have also never thought of 'mental illness' in the way that most would view mental illness... Some kind of psychosis, etc. I do still believe that this brother probably has some serious developmental issues. And, of course the psychological effects of these things.. (depression, powerlessness, others must provide, etc...) But, developmental issues and mental illness are TWO VERY DIFFERENT THINGS.
(That is why I take issue with the parents of that violent boy who was kind of forced out of the neighborhood after physically assaulting other kids, even very young children. Autism is not a violent mental illness. And, they are doing a lot of damage by trying to make their claims.)
I did not assume that the OP was thinking that this guy was some kind of sexual predator.
And, the guy is just not going to be moving into their home.
But, IF he were to move in, then who knows what other friends/girlfriends might come and go.
It is just that you never know.
And, with the husbands issues regarding his brother and family, I would not automatically assume that "if he trust them, I trust them..."
Many of us pointed out how the husbands feelings and views could be very skewed when it comes to this brother.
OP, I am so glad that things seem to be working out!
PS: I have also never thought of 'mental illness' in the way that most would view mental illness... Some kind of psychosis, etc. I do still believe that this brother probably has some serious developmental issues. And, of course the psychological effects of these things.. (depression, powerlessness, others must provide, etc...) But, developmental issues and mental illness are TWO VERY DIFFERENT THINGS.
(That is why I take issue with the parents of that violent boy who was kind of forced out of the neighborhood after physically assaulting other kids, even very young children. Autism is not a violent mental illness. And, they are doing a lot of damage by trying to make their claims.)
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