My absolute favorite resort is the Wilderness Lodge for the following reason
1. Love the theme
2. Friendliest staff
3. All interior hallways
4. Johnna the bartender in the Territory Lounge is AWESOME.
What I would recommend for a family of 4 would depend on if you got one room or 2.
If you are getting one room - Go for the Polynesian. They actually have the largest square footage rooms. I took my parents there and the 3 of us stayed in one room with plenty of space (my mother is disabled and has a walker and a
scooter and we still fit) and the rooms have 2 queen beds and a day bed that comfortably fits an adult.
If you are getting 2 rooms - my vote is WL. I have stayed at all the moderates and most of the deluxes and here are my thoughts.
1. The moderates all have separate buildings spread out over a larger area. When it rains and you want to go grab a soda, you have to go outside and hike up to the main part of the resort.
2. Love the Boardwalk for the location, but the dining options are all outside and there is not a true quick service
3. AKL - is a beautiful resort, but transportation time to the parks is too long.
4. GF is beautiful, but the people are not quite as friendly The has separate bldgs like mods unless you spend the big $ and stay RPC.
5. Beach Club - Loved the resort location and the pool, but had a not so Disney experience with check in at this hotel so I cannot recommend it.
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