minniecarousel
Chris Isaak fan
- Joined
- Jul 13, 2000
Mother of two grooms here (several years ago).
I have a large, close family, so for one shower, it was at my house but the invitation was written "hosted by MOH". We don't get fussy.
The other DDIL had 3 showers: a small one with the women on her side of the family, hosted by an aunt. One with her GFs, hosted by her Bridesmaids. And I know I hosted one at my house, but I don't remember how it was worded. We just invited the women in my family and the brides sisters & mother.
I am amazed at the "norms" around the country! And the money gift at a wedding to "cover your plate"! How on earth are you supposed to guess how much that is?! I'd have to decline an invitation if $500 was expected!
I have a large, close family, so for one shower, it was at my house but the invitation was written "hosted by MOH". We don't get fussy.
The other DDIL had 3 showers: a small one with the women on her side of the family, hosted by an aunt. One with her GFs, hosted by her Bridesmaids. And I know I hosted one at my house, but I don't remember how it was worded. We just invited the women in my family and the brides sisters & mother.
I am amazed at the "norms" around the country! And the money gift at a wedding to "cover your plate"! How on earth are you supposed to guess how much that is?! I'd have to decline an invitation if $500 was expected!