I've seen so many posts about doing Disney the wrong way, or not being prepared, or getting terrible advice, or knowing how to do WDW because you "researched." We are going in May, and while I feel prepared, when i read some of these threads I feel like I am missing something. So what is the "research" ?? Is it reading crowd calendars, making ADRs, knowing what park you will go each day, or making a detailed touring plan of what ride goes next? I feel overwhelmed, as if I am missing a key piece of planning our vacation and that I simply do not know nearly as much as I should... Help me out please!