reecejackox
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- Apr 23, 2017
I would say that my grandfather ran off before I was born.
That is very hard. My oldest is 10. My youngest is 5. In between the two of them, I had a still born daughter. I have told my oldest and she does know. Specifically because I don't want this situation to happen with her. But I will say it is a very difficult subject and not one that I talk about. I have told my daughter that she can ask me questions if she has them but I have told her that it is very hard to talk about.I was 12 ish when my Aunt was talking to another lady at church about my older sister that had been stillborn. I went 12 years without knowing I had an older sister. I asked my mom about it - I wanted to know more! My mom was livid at that Aunt for saying that around me - and she hasn't talked about it since - I am nearly 40 now ... wish I knew at least her name.
Thank you for your insight - as a parent now I do understand more about why she wouldn't want to discuss it.That is very hard. My oldest is 10. My youngest is 5. In between the two of them, I had a still born daughter. I have told my oldest and she does know. Specifically because I don't want this situation to happen with her. But I will say it is a very difficult subject and not one that I talk about. I have told my daughter that she can ask me questions if she has them but I have told her that it is very hard to talk about.