just had to tell my story. I'm still kind of PO'd about it.
My son, a straight A student, was suspended for one day for giving a list of about 40 English words to his Mexican friend, also a straight A student, in between classes and asking his friend to write down the Spanish words for him.
Out of the 40 words, he wrote these 5 the teacher objected to: Hairy, Crack, Butt, Fat, and *****. All the rest were perfectly ordinary vocabulary words.
Now he was in 6th grade. I met with the teacher and principal. I pointed out to these ladies that he wasn't disrupting class, both boys had finished all their classroom assignment and their homework assignments and with 15 minutes left in her class were left to thier own devices. My son had finished his extra-curicualar reading book and taken his computerized test on it earlier in the day and didn't have another book to read. The teacher was busy teaching the slower students. My son's friend was filling out the paper quietly when the teacher looked over his shoulder and confiscated the list. When she read it, she sent both of them to the office, the principal suspended them both, without so much as a call or note sent home to the parents. We just got a call to come pick him up and he was not to return to school until the day after.
I pointed out to these two lady teachers that :
1) These advanced students in their advanced class shouldn't be allowed to have 15 minutes of free time after finishing classroom and homework assignments. They need to have additional work for them to pursue. The teacher whined that such work would take additional preparation. I told her that we've had this problem, albeit a good problem to have, with my son since first grade, and that every teacher in elemetary school recognized this problem and simply had photocopies of worksheets from the next higher grade level that she gave my son to work on when this happened. This was followed by more whining.
2) The 5 words they were objecting to, while taken together were moderately unacceptable, they are legitimate words. I gave conversational examples of each word used in a sentence which would not be considered offensive. I further told them that if they wished, I'd be happy to give them 20 offensive words for ***** right here and now, that he could've easily asked for in Spanish.
My son finished the school year with a 99 average in that teacher's class. Now go figure this out.....