You forgot to mention you don't have kids. DH and I would live much better than we already do if we didn't have kids.
That was a decision we made. And a decision you made. I didn't see the need to mention it. Still don't.
Its funny when you are young people tell you kids don't cost much. Have them. Just some food & diapers, etc.
Yet, later when they aren't doing as well as they could, they blame it all on having kids.
You can't have it both ways.
If you want to blame it on having children, then some of our friends who have grown children who have graduated college should be doing better, but still can't seem to figure out how. Its not the kids. Its their ways, their decisions on money, their priorities, or lack of know how in some cases.
In our case, buying a cheaper townhouse (same # of square feet than friends houses, same town) rather than buying a more expensive house was a smart decision & makes no difference about having kids or not. Money saved. Place to live. Same # of bedrooms & size. They choice the more expensive decision. See, didn't see the need to mention kids there. Not part of the equation. They aren't always happy with their decision either. Mortgage payment, work to fix stuff & take care of yard, cost of equipment to maintain said yard, etc. Nothing to do with kids.