I too am a DLR frequent visitor and I feel all your frustrations
We have not been to WDW for 12 years and we are taking a big trip including grandparents for our DD 21st. Up at 3 AM to make ADR's...twice (since we are doing split stay). This is the fourth trip I have planned to WDW and I loved doing it the other times. This one not so much. It is an incredible amount of money and while I know we will have a wonderful time and I hope all the planning and strategizing will be worth it in the end I think after this trip we may stick with DLR (although they will probably change it all too lol).
As to what whiporee stated:
Maybe they should... I don't think 9 AM to 7PM would be of much value to us at the current price for a day in the park. 9 AM to 9PM or 10PM yes... this is what they do with Epcot and I don't feel the same frustration I do when trying to plan for the Magic Kingdom. Does that make sense? I mean Epcot is pretty much always 9am-9pm (except for a few select dates when super busy). Set a time and stick with it, the trips I took in the dark ages of Walt Disney World (2005, 1999 and 1995) managed to do that months in advance. I think part of our frustration as DLR park goers is that
Disneyland has had pretty much set hours for the last 17 years we have gone (we have been AP holders for about 12 of those years) and you know what to expect and what hours they are most likely going to be open in just about every season. But I think a lot of that stems from being more of a local park?? Maybe?
In the end I am sure you will have a great time!!