chris1gill
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I think the whole situation is sad, both for the girl and the baby. She wasn't capable of caring for the baby, she was frustrated and in over her head. She's under 18, I'm sure her parents had great sway with her, they should have discussed with her or even realized themselves the trouble she would have.
Even as a much older mother of a baby with extreme colic, there were times I was so desperate I would call my other older friends over to help me. My own mother couldn't stand being around during this time (says a lot about my own mother). The best advice I was ever given, if the child is crying and you are so frustrated, put the child into his or her crib and walk away, sit on the front porch, cry it out yourself, compose yourself, then go back in and try to effectively parent. I wish someone had given this girl that word of advice.
I feel sorry for the two of them, someone should have seen this coming....
Even as a much older mother of a baby with extreme colic, there were times I was so desperate I would call my other older friends over to help me. My own mother couldn't stand being around during this time (says a lot about my own mother). The best advice I was ever given, if the child is crying and you are so frustrated, put the child into his or her crib and walk away, sit on the front porch, cry it out yourself, compose yourself, then go back in and try to effectively parent. I wish someone had given this girl that word of advice.
I feel sorry for the two of them, someone should have seen this coming....