I work for the City of Portsmouth and watched the Wonder out my window last year. I think one of the best places to see the ship is from the Seawall in Portsmouth (Olde Towne). It is easy to get here from I-264, or you can take the ferry across from Norfolk. The ship is right across the river and there are no obstructions. When I would drive into work lat year down High St (in Portsmouth) - it looked like it was docked at the end of the street!!
I also have a friend who works at Norshipco, and I have emailed him to find out the time of arrival (if he can give it out....Disney, as you can imagine, is very secure....he can't even get on the ship while it is in dock).
We were supposed to be sailing on the Magic 11/26, but have had to move things around due to an illness. Hopefully we will be confirming our 1/7/06 Eastern this week and I can start getting excited. Otherwise, it will be painful to watch the Magic here in October knowing we won't be going on our cruise!!