I am so sorry this has happened. My thoughts & prayers are with Kevin & his family. It wasn't so long ago that I walked in their shoes.
I agree with what Kevin said about holding your loved ones dear & not sweating the small stuff. In addition, I can say from experience, that it's important to live everyday fully. Make memories every day-little ones as well as big ones. Sometimes the zany funny moments that happen unexpextedly that are the ones that become most cherished later on.
LOL to all of you who care so much