Regarding what the OP witnessed. I am wondering why the parents of the kids on that coaches team didn't say anything if it was really bad. If I felt that my kid was being abused in some way I just couldn't sit there in my chair and not say or do something...and I am a quiet person.
I'm sure I'm in the minority here...and probably a terrible parent in many eyes. But I played sports when I was a kid, I wasn't a great athlete and I wasn't the worst on the team...just average. Sometimes it was rough, the coaches yelled. I played because I liked it...and I wanted to win.
My DD(6) is on a coed U-8 soccer team. I never played soccer, never wanted to. She got the strictest coach in the league this season. I was worried. She is thrilled. Why? Because she knows he will make her work hard, get better, and they will win. If they don't listen or do what they should...they have to run a lap.
After only a few practices, there is more of a sense of "team" between the kids than all of last season with a different coach (who I loved). I don't force DD to play, she plays because she likes it. Heck it is a pain for me to drive her around all the time and if she wanted to quit...my life would be easier.
I'm tired of the way people treat kids these days. No winners, no losers, no failing, everyone gets an award, no dodgeball, don't keep score, no tag, no hugs, etc.
These kids are going to grow up with no life skills. Yet, they are our future.
I'm sure I'm in the minority here...and probably a terrible parent in many eyes. But I played sports when I was a kid, I wasn't a great athlete and I wasn't the worst on the team...just average. Sometimes it was rough, the coaches yelled. I played because I liked it...and I wanted to win.
My DD(6) is on a coed U-8 soccer team. I never played soccer, never wanted to. She got the strictest coach in the league this season. I was worried. She is thrilled. Why? Because she knows he will make her work hard, get better, and they will win. If they don't listen or do what they should...they have to run a lap.
After only a few practices, there is more of a sense of "team" between the kids than all of last season with a different coach (who I loved). I don't force DD to play, she plays because she likes it. Heck it is a pain for me to drive her around all the time and if she wanted to quit...my life would be easier.
I'm tired of the way people treat kids these days. No winners, no losers, no failing, everyone gets an award, no dodgeball, don't keep score, no tag, no hugs, etc.
These kids are going to grow up with no life skills. Yet, they are our future.