Sydnie
Mouseketeer
- Joined
- Jun 27, 2011
I have a child, but I still don't see why it should entitle me to a better parking spot.
Sorry once again if it came off this way. I am in no way entitled to any spot more than anyone else. I just happened to be the first car to come up to her when she started holding the spot and the fact I had kids in the car just made it that many more people she was inconveniencing by deciding to block it. I explained my thoughts here;
Well when I see someone with young children, a pregnant woman, elderly people or disabled people in their group I will always give them my space, hold a door or give them my seat. I know how much work it is to get around with two children but even when I am with my children I try to accommodate other people's needs above our own much as possible. I think that is the cornerstone of civility and respect for others. The very reason I didn't push the issue of the parking space was because I thought the lady was waiting for family members who may be elderly, have young children or with special needs. Having a 1 and a 3 year old, while a lot of work, is nothing compared to the needs many other families have. However I was doubly frustrated when I saw the lady's able-bodied husband spring out of the car.She chose to hold it for him knowing it would mean a mom and two toddlers having to park much farther away. (She could very obviously see the kids in their car seats) I just find it inconsiderate. I would never ever dream of asking someone already parking to move for us though.
I think it's abhorrent that people take handicapped spots-it takes a special kind of entitled jerk to think that is acceptable even for a second. I am sorry you have to deal with it.
Would I have given up the spot if a handicapped or elderly person pulled in behind me? Absolutely!!! It is only good manners and in a crowded parking lot they should absolutely take precedence over a healthy 27 year old and her two kids. I also routinely let people go ahead of me in line, hold doors for people and say please and thank you. It's all part and parcel of treating people the way they should be, with respect.
I must disagree that she "got it first" however. She had already parked her car elsewhere and then chose to tie up a parking spot for about 15 minutes while cars were circling. I don't think a pedestrian should do that. Had her husband beat me to the space I would never dream of asking him to move-that would have been as selfish as I am accusing her of being! I just think it's wrong for a person to "claim" a spot like that. She is not a car, the spots are for whichever car gets to them first
Of course I can accept that we just may disagree on this