I am the office manager for 1 of the offices I bill for. Anyhow, the doctor of this practice called me last night and told me she wanted me to hold an 8:30 am mtg today to have the staff discuss "things" and get caught up on any changes, ect. "So she doesn't have to hear about them". In other words someone was complaing to her again and wants me to stop them.
So, I get all the staff to come in early and I rearrange my schedule, as well as our practice administrator rescheduling to show up. Anyhow, the entire 45 minute meeting turned into a complete bashing of my ineffectiveness and unprofessionalism fest. I was so sideblinded by this that I couldn't even find the words to put a stop to it. I've been so upset and furious all day. They took so many phrases out of context and turned them against me. It was awful.
An example--- back in Jan (yes 5 months ago) I was talking to the one person about being called into the office for a computer issue at 6pm on my son's bday, and having to postpone dinner because of it. The person then was telling me how she wanted to take off her DS bday cause she always ends up working late that day. I told her kiddingly-- tough luck-- we don't give bdays off. We both laughed, she had the day off. We were talking friendly-- it was all jokingly said 5 months ago!!!! Anyhow, today she said she asked for a day off and I repsonded w/ "tough luck". The whole thing was 1 phrase of a friendly kidding conversation!!! She had the day off w/o issue!!!!
Anyhow, these were the sorts of things they were bringing up. Her and another employee made a list and decided to review it at this meeting in front of everyone. But not one single thing was said in the context they made it sound like I said it.
I've never been in this situation before-- I don't know how to handle this. I know they think they got the best of me-- "put me in my place".
Any advice?? I'm really dreading tomorrow because I really don't know how to handle this whole thing.
So, I get all the staff to come in early and I rearrange my schedule, as well as our practice administrator rescheduling to show up. Anyhow, the entire 45 minute meeting turned into a complete bashing of my ineffectiveness and unprofessionalism fest. I was so sideblinded by this that I couldn't even find the words to put a stop to it. I've been so upset and furious all day. They took so many phrases out of context and turned them against me. It was awful.
An example--- back in Jan (yes 5 months ago) I was talking to the one person about being called into the office for a computer issue at 6pm on my son's bday, and having to postpone dinner because of it. The person then was telling me how she wanted to take off her DS bday cause she always ends up working late that day. I told her kiddingly-- tough luck-- we don't give bdays off. We both laughed, she had the day off. We were talking friendly-- it was all jokingly said 5 months ago!!!! Anyhow, today she said she asked for a day off and I repsonded w/ "tough luck". The whole thing was 1 phrase of a friendly kidding conversation!!! She had the day off w/o issue!!!!
Anyhow, these were the sorts of things they were bringing up. Her and another employee made a list and decided to review it at this meeting in front of everyone. But not one single thing was said in the context they made it sound like I said it.
I've never been in this situation before-- I don't know how to handle this. I know they think they got the best of me-- "put me in my place".
Any advice?? I'm really dreading tomorrow because I really don't know how to handle this whole thing.