natebenma
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haha so glad he finally put down the splint.
I had to go back and reread the post you quoted from me and laugh.
My nephews at now 16 1/2 show signs of being the boys I helped raise and love and not the hormonal aliens that body snatched them a few years ago.
The past few years have been hard. They turned into obnoxious, surly, snotty teens and I don't know that I got a decent picture of them even once in 2013 and 2014.
Cut to this last Christmas and they were a dream. Grateful for everything they got and in fact had changed into the clothes I bought them within the hour, appreciative and complimentary of food that my mom had made for dinner, they took photos, TWICE, and were cooperative to retakes, and if not big smiles every time, at least their were no scowls, and they did not fight, argue or make anyone cry. LOL Come to think of it their 16th birthday provided some decent pictures as well. I might keep them in my will at this point. (oh yeah and they have begun to initiate hugs again, at least on a limited basis)
Now that I know this is here, I'm going to go subscribe and read.

So good to see you again!!!
Yes, funny thing about teens. For Nate, there were about 6 months at age 12 when he was just so angry. He had no reason to be, but he just was. Then it stopped and he was just very aloof for a few years. In the past year or so, he has come around and become very appreciative of what he has, helpful and is a lot of fun to be around. Right before he goes away for college!

It looks like you are experiencing a similar transformation.
My boys still don't like me to take their pictures, but will grudgingly consent as long as I don't overdo it.
Ben, so far, has been a decent teen. He seems to be a little less mature than his peers, so I don't know if the shoe is going to drop, soon, but so far, so good.
The thumb splint... Let's do another flashback for those who were not around at the time.
When Nate was in 6th grade, he was playing football at recess at school and he sprained his thumb. We saw an orthopedist (I think) who put a splint on it and said he should leave it on until his thumb no longer hurt.
He refused to take it off. He said his thumb still hurt, so he was keeping it on. It was like a security blanket for him.
It took it off for a short period of time, I can't remember how long, and then it was back again. In total, about 2 1/2 years.
He finally took it a day or so before he started high school and it has been gone since then.

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