rrali33tt
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- Jun 30, 2011
What is the etiquette for when you should or should not invite children to a destination wedding?
If I was planning on having a wedding at home in NJ I would not be asking this question, because the answer would be simple - I do not want children at my wedding so therefore I will not invite children to the wedding.
However, when you are asking people to travel from NY/NJ to Florida for a wedding the answer to that question becomes tricky and even trickier when the members of the bridal party have very young children (2yrs and younger).
Do you have to invite the toddlers? I really don't want very young children (or any children) at the evening reception. But is is rude to not invite them when the parents would have to travel? I expect the parents to bring the children to Disney with them for the weekend (or longer) for a family vacation, but I am just concerned about what is appropriate in regards to the evening reception. I would invite them to the dessert party for fireworks the night before, but I am worried about the reception.
If you don't invite them, should you pay for the babysitting? I am thinking it might be cheaper to just invite the children to the wedding, but I don't have any children and am worried there will be chaos at the wedding with children that young. Also, because I don't have children I am not sure how offended people would be if you don't invite the children.
If you do invite them, and tell the parents about the babysitting options, if they decide to not bring the children to the reception, should you pay for the babysitting?
If you do invite them, I suppose you would seat all the bridal party guests with their spouse & children at their own table?
Does Disney charge for young children at weddings?
One more question....does your opinion change if the children in question are between the ages of 9-16?
I would love to hear all your opinions on the subject!
If I was planning on having a wedding at home in NJ I would not be asking this question, because the answer would be simple - I do not want children at my wedding so therefore I will not invite children to the wedding.
However, when you are asking people to travel from NY/NJ to Florida for a wedding the answer to that question becomes tricky and even trickier when the members of the bridal party have very young children (2yrs and younger).
Do you have to invite the toddlers? I really don't want very young children (or any children) at the evening reception. But is is rude to not invite them when the parents would have to travel? I expect the parents to bring the children to Disney with them for the weekend (or longer) for a family vacation, but I am just concerned about what is appropriate in regards to the evening reception. I would invite them to the dessert party for fireworks the night before, but I am worried about the reception.
If you don't invite them, should you pay for the babysitting? I am thinking it might be cheaper to just invite the children to the wedding, but I don't have any children and am worried there will be chaos at the wedding with children that young. Also, because I don't have children I am not sure how offended people would be if you don't invite the children.
If you do invite them, and tell the parents about the babysitting options, if they decide to not bring the children to the reception, should you pay for the babysitting?
If you do invite them, I suppose you would seat all the bridal party guests with their spouse & children at their own table?
Does Disney charge for young children at weddings?
One more question....does your opinion change if the children in question are between the ages of 9-16?
I would love to hear all your opinions on the subject!