I get it. It's just the place I have found I can spend quality time with my children and have a good time and there is something for everybody. Wherever someone finds that for their family or themselves and their spouse or for themselves, they should be free to go without judgement. But still people feel the need to weigh in when it's Disney.
We consist of a 40 year-old woman, an elementary school aged girl and a pre-school age boy, but we are all happy at that place. I was trying to plan a trip with my parents, but finances weren't where I needed them to be and my mother was nervous about even telling my stepdad how much it was going to cost so I dropped it.
I was thinking the beach for this summer, but when I mentioned summer vacation the children wanted Mickey. My 3 year-old son said, "I want to go see Mickey" over and over. My daughter started singing about it. Then my 3 year-old says, "It's so beautiful there mommy. I can't wait to go. Can we go, please?"
I just wanted to make it happen and the truth is when I priced the ocean front hotel I was considering for this summer, I'll only spend $300 more going to Disney if we drive and stay off-site this time. A plan is in the works to get a 6 bedroom house in Windsor Hills for 2014 with my sister, brother, brother-in-law, adult nieces, their children, our dad and stepmom and my children. As soon as I said Disney 2014 and sent my sister the pictures of the house she said yes, my nieces were immediately on board and my dad just said to let him know how much money to send for their share of the house rental. But it certainly doesn't get that love from everyone.
A Disney World facebook link showed up in my news feed because of a couple of my friends "liked" the page. I read some of the comments and there was an immense amount of hate for Disney in them, mainly about prices and crowds and I imagine that is behind some of these comments especially the poster who had someone tell her she must be made of money.
In 2 months we'll be on our 3rd trip and I have only told one person where we are going. People may be jealous, but instead of trying to find out how it can be done, they just look in disbelief instead of just asking. I imagine some people think I have a lot more money than I do, the "rich widow" stereotype. I'm anything but. I got the children and the mortgage. My MIL got the insurance money.
Our last trip was 10 days. What people don't know is it took me 9 months to pay for it. A lot of people don't even know you can stretch the payments out like that. But I have a friend who is a single parent (divorced but gets no child support) and when I told her about the trip, she listened to how I planned it because she couldn't imagine doing a vacation of that length of any type with her daughter. Now, she's not a Disney person unless it's
DCL which she loves, but she now has a 10 day summer vacation planned for her and her daughter, a 7 day on the Allure (Royal Carribean) and 3 days at a beach front hotel when the boat gets back to Florida. All because instead of saying, "Disney again????" she listened and learned something. She planned ahead, everything is almost paid for and she's excited.
If more people listened instead of hatin' on Disney, they might get there, or wherever else they might want to go.