rt2dz
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- Oct 26, 2004
Ive been following this thread with interest. I do have pet peeves, but: judge not, least you be judged.
I have a child who has autism, but is extremely high functioning. At a glance, even a long one, most people wouldnt notice. He has his issues though. He might have a sudden, horrible meltdown because he cant express his back is itchy. Life wont stop because he has issues. Will I allow the fit in a restaurant? Of course not, but I might have to get him to a calm enough point before I can remove him. And if I happen to be roaming around WDW, well deal with it then and there. We will not be going back to the roomNEVER will one person, especially a child, in our family run the entire vacation. My kids arent allowed that much control. The adults run the show.
Sometimes getting after him would cause a bigger disturbance so how you get after him is very crucial. He gets away with things my other two never would. For example, standing in his chair at a restaurantas long as no one else is near him (and we do request that) so he isnt looking over at another table but focused on our table, so be it. There are different rules for children with autism, and the on-looker doesnt know which type of child (in many cases), you are judging. Basically, I dont give a damn what someone in the outside world is thinking. Ill follow the advice of his therapists and developmental pediatrician. I highly suggest the book (and I might be a little off on the title) 10 Things Every Child with Autism Wishes You Knew.
As the mother of 3 (with another on the way), Ive learned pick your battles. Fighting over a bottle isnt worth it. The real chance of it causing permanent tooth damage is minimal, and there is always braces. My kids were always away from the bottle early, but what difference does it make? Dont battle over clothes. Let them wear what they want. Why stifle them? Bring something more practical with you for when they decide it was a poor choice. Some kids only learn by doing. Basically, as long as it doesnt put their (or someone elses) safety or health at risk, let the minor things go. For the record, good manners arent minor, so dont go there. Things that *only* affect your child are minor.
OK, that is as far as Im going to go.
I have a child who has autism, but is extremely high functioning. At a glance, even a long one, most people wouldnt notice. He has his issues though. He might have a sudden, horrible meltdown because he cant express his back is itchy. Life wont stop because he has issues. Will I allow the fit in a restaurant? Of course not, but I might have to get him to a calm enough point before I can remove him. And if I happen to be roaming around WDW, well deal with it then and there. We will not be going back to the roomNEVER will one person, especially a child, in our family run the entire vacation. My kids arent allowed that much control. The adults run the show.
Sometimes getting after him would cause a bigger disturbance so how you get after him is very crucial. He gets away with things my other two never would. For example, standing in his chair at a restaurantas long as no one else is near him (and we do request that) so he isnt looking over at another table but focused on our table, so be it. There are different rules for children with autism, and the on-looker doesnt know which type of child (in many cases), you are judging. Basically, I dont give a damn what someone in the outside world is thinking. Ill follow the advice of his therapists and developmental pediatrician. I highly suggest the book (and I might be a little off on the title) 10 Things Every Child with Autism Wishes You Knew.
As the mother of 3 (with another on the way), Ive learned pick your battles. Fighting over a bottle isnt worth it. The real chance of it causing permanent tooth damage is minimal, and there is always braces. My kids were always away from the bottle early, but what difference does it make? Dont battle over clothes. Let them wear what they want. Why stifle them? Bring something more practical with you for when they decide it was a poor choice. Some kids only learn by doing. Basically, as long as it doesnt put their (or someone elses) safety or health at risk, let the minor things go. For the record, good manners arent minor, so dont go there. Things that *only* affect your child are minor.
OK, that is as far as Im going to go.