budbeerlady said:
I would have loved to hear that some thing "sucks" from the pulpit growing up!!!!!! Finish the report!!!!! Please!!!!!!
I'm trying, I'm trying. Got other things I'm working on this afternoon too. I have to teach 300 12 year olds this weekend - got 5 classes so I'm doing the trip report while on breaks.
Oh, and I don't say sucks from the pulpit. I do have some semblance of appropriateness most of the time. However, here's the last story I used that got a shaking of the head from Rhonda:
I was talking about faith and the difference between faith and knowledge. And how you would take, for instance, the Brown family. Now Mrs. Brown, she has knowledge that those two lovely children are hers. But Mr. Brown is a different story. He has faith that those children are his. See the difference?
It got quite a chuckle from the congregation. You also have to know your people. I couldn't tell that story in the stodgy place I served in Savannah. They'd run me out on a rail. But I also recognize that as society changes, the church has to change its way of communicating. Say for instance in a conversation I made reference to my Ebenezer. (now I'm going to make you go read your Bibles - 1 Samuel chapter 7 verse 12.) It's even a line in a famous hymn, Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing. But no one today knows what an Ebenezer is. So it would be pointless for me to use that. But to say something sucks, everybody knows that means it's bad, awful, worthless.
Heard a guy say that if the church is going to reach new generations it has to take the Gospel and put it in different containers. He said, take for instance my children. He had a 12 year old that drinks from a regular cup, a 3 year old that drank from a sippy cup and an infant that drank from, well, you know. He said each one drinks milk, but they all will drink from a different container. The 12 year old won't go back and drink from the containers of the 3 year old and infant. The infant and 3 year old aren't ready to drink from the container the 12 year old drinks from. Today's generation won't drink from the same container that my parents did in the 50's. They won't even drink from the container I drink from. But I have to put the Gospel in a container that they will pick up and drink from. If I talked about an LP, they wouldn't have a clue what I"m talking about. But I can talk about MP3 and they know immediately. See?
So, with that having been said, I don't see anything wrong with using the word sucks in particular settings. I wouldn't use it if talking with older folks. However I might with younger folks - but again - not from the pulpit. There are words though, most of which you could probably guess, that I won't use.
Make sense?
And yes, I am getting to work on the next day's installment in between all my ramblings and studying for the weekend.
Blessings all!
Mark