It's just a fun, idealized version of the real world. I take it for what it is.
My kids have been fortunate enough to travel to various places - but Disney is still Disney. There's magic in the air and that's what counts
I have to say - after growing up in a tropical country, I don't have the same romantic view of the Poly as most folks. My DH went gaga while it didn't make a massive impression on me. Wilderness Lodge is my idea of exotic!
Funny, I was just talking about this in another thread.
For 20yrs my husband and I have travelled extensively (10 yrs with our daughter), we have seen most of the world. Our world is an amazing place and I am very lucky to have seen it not only in all its awesomeness but its dark side too, which reminds me every day how lucky we are.
I urge anyone who can, to explore the world.
But now, we are happy to vacay in Disney every year. We don't see it as fake, we see it as an escape. The one place where we can truly forget about the outside world and our daily challenges and just relax. We can breathe and just enjoy each other and our time together. Its almost like time stops, everything else is on hold
The other night a friend told me that her kids didn't enjoy their visit to Disney World. (I know, horrors! )
Why? Because they'd spent years travelling extensively in the Real World as young children and couldn't get over how fake everything was at Disney. Having seen Italy and Norway and England in person, they just didn't enjoy the pretend versions at all.
It's meant to be entertaining, not to fool you into thinking you are really in Europe.
And my DH, who lived in Hawaii for several year and hated it, thinks Polynesian is realistic enough that he has said we'll never stay there because he'll have flashbacks.
The "I've been to the real ______" works for World Showcase, but they didn't enjoy the rest of the parks at all? Do they sit in real tea cups, so those fake ones weren't fun? They meet real princesses, so the fake ones were boring?
To me, it sounds like the parents are raising boring kids, with a certain lack of imagination.
Oh quite the opposite. They're highly creative, accomplished kids, that anyone would be proud to have raised. But they've been on real zip lines and real white water rafting trips, and they've eaten in real castles.
I think the eldest son in particular is a highly intelligent, logical guy, so being still young, "authenticity" is a very important concept to him.
Personally, I love the "dollhouse" metaphor, and will bring it up some day with them!