For DH, DD and I traveling alone, no it isn't.
Add in my parents and my brother/SIL/nephews (1 of whom will be 1 month away from being 6, the other which will be 9 on our next trip), and things get more complicated.
My parents want to spend time with the boys and with DD, and want us all to spend time together.
My brother and SIL tend to split up, my brother taking the 9 y/o to some rides while the 6 y/o goes with SIL to other rides.
DD will only be 3 on the trip, and will *hopefully* be walking by then, but we don't know for sure. She's small for her age, so won't hit many height requirements,but she will ride a lot of the non-height requirement rides. DH and I also want to experience things with our nephews.
Under legacy, this type of trip actually went very smoothly. We'd pick FPs up together if we were all in a group at the time, or separately if we were separated. Those decisions weren't made until we were *in the parks*.
Now we have to decide how to use those FP+s.
Are we going to use them all for headliners/height restricted rides, since those have the longest lines?
If we do that, what do we do with DD's FP+? Do we book FP+ for her for those rides as well, and someone else uses her band in conjunction with RS and then the adult who has to stay behind and watch her gets to ride their RS ride with both nephews and another adult? (For ex, if I stayed behind, I'd then get to ride with DH and my 2 nephews - something I'd really like to do).
Doing that means that we're then doing SB (or trying for 4th FP+) for rides that she can join everyone on - so potentially longer waits than if we used FP+ - do we want to risk longer waits with a toddler? (She's pretty patient as toddlers go, so it would likely be OK)
Since Brother/SIL like to separate, are we all getting the same FP+? Or are we FP+ing different attractions? If we all FP+ different attractions, and DH and I want to ride with the boys as well, how do we make that happen? Do we book FP+s for DD for her rides, and then make at least 1FP+ for a parent/grandparent to go with her?
ETA: And what do we want to FP+, even for the nephews? Older nephew didn't like quite a few height requirement times last time....but he was 6. Do we FP+ something that he may not want to go on? Previously, he'd be *looking* at the attraction and he'd decide. There's a difference between being at the attraction and seeing it and making that decision and making it 2 months before arriving. On the same note...his now 6 y/o brother - will he be scared of the same things older nephew was at that age? Or, since he's more fearless in general, will he be more adventurous than his brother? Again, we'd better be able to gauge that *in the park* than 2 months before when they haven't seen Disney in 2.5 years and don't remember a lot of it.
When do we try to make those FP+ for? General wisdom here is to get them for the afternoon when it's busiest. The boys don't nap, so that could work, but frequently their parents will enforce a "down time" - especially for the youngest. I could see that happening.DD is fighting naps already at 2.5, so will she take naps there or not? last time we did stroller napping, and she was fine..don't know if she'll stroller nap this time. Likely we'll look for timing between 11-1, to make 4th FPs an option at least, but if for some reason things change when we get there, then we're at the mercy of how flexible the FP+ system is. We did not find it to be flexible when we tried to move things for just 3 adults in November 2014, and we're going over the same weekend (Wine and Dine 1/2 Marathon) in 2015, so I don't feel like it's smart to count on that flexibility.
Determining all of the above is going to, for MY family, require a lot more pre-planning of *park time* than we have ever done before. There's going to be at least 1 big sit down with all of the families, probably 2. I'm sure some will say "well, you always have to do that when traveling with a big group" - but, quite honestly, we did not have to have more than 1 planning discussion *pre-arrival* for our last trip.
I'm also quite sure there are those who thought about all of the above things before traveling with their extended families as well. For *us* we had a brief talk about expectations, I planned park days/ADRs, and beyond that any discussion of rides and what to do was done *in the parks*.
Bottom line is that, for *us*, anything that involves booking FP+ for this upcoming trip will require more pre-planning of *park time* than we have ever done before.