Thanks everyone for the tips and answers to my post. We are here now, in a regular refurbished room with a full balcony and of course it is wonderful. No upgrades, and very little attention paid to my daughter for her birthday. I requested a balloon and card when we arrived, and had to call when the end of the night came and no card from snow white that I had requested last week.
With every LITTLE thing that could happen not according to plan or hopes, there are very BIG things that are making our stay just glorious so far. We love the Beach Club now. Just the amenities, the decor, the views(we can see the lake and beach and part of the Boardwalk), the comfortable beds, flat screen tv, I could go on and on. The weather indeed is on the cool side, but the pool is heated and although we haven't been in at night due to the weather, we have been in during the day every day.
We are truly spoiled here now. Can't see staying anywhere else onsite.Next step-DVC I guess-so we can get all the amenities here, but a kitchen and more room to spread out!
Thanks again!