thelionqueen
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Jun 7, 2005
We tried it when DS was 4, for his third trip. Miserable failure. DS has a mild case of Asperger's, and when he was young one of the manifestations was that he was very literal; in his mind words had only one definition.
His preschool dismissed early that day, so we had all the luggage already packed and waiting to go in the kitchen. DH picked him up and told him that I had a surprise waiting for him at home. He walked in, and we told him that the suitcases were there because we were leaving for the airport RIGHT NOW to go to WDW! ... And he looked at me and said, "Where's the surprise?" In his mind, a surprise had to be a "thing"; an announcement didn't count, so he was disappointed because he assumed that he would be getting some kind of gift.
So, we head to the airport with Mister Blase, and we get on our flight, but there are delays on the ground and in the air (endless circles), and we don't arrive at MCO until about 11 pm. Our sleepy child hears the FA say, "Welcome to Orlando" and *suddenly* he realizes what this really means. He starts absolutely bubbling over with excitement ... at the end of a 9 hour version of what should have been a 2.5 hour flight. DH & I were absolutely knackered, but DS was bouncing off the walls. When we finally got into our room at POFQ it was 2 am, and he was still at it. It took FOREVER to get him to go to sleep, and we were headed for an MK EMH that morning; I think we managed to sleep only from 4-6 am.
The irony is that by the time we headed home several days later, we still had not learned our lesson in this regard. DS was a HUGE fan of Lion King at the time, so we bought him a nice Simba plush, but hid it, thinking to use it as a surprise gift to help mitigate the disappointment of having to go home. At MCO, DH took him to the restroom and I tucked the Simba into his carryon; the plan was to do the "look who decided to come home with us?" thing when he opened the bag. Again, serious miscalculation. It turns out that DS knew EXACTLY what had been in his bag when we got to the airport, and that Simba had not been there -- he was EXTREMELY suspicious of the toy's ability to just "appear" inside a closed backpack. For the next several years he *hated* that toy; he thought that it was somehow possessed of evil spirits or something. When his younger sister was born he gifted her with it and was obviously profoundly glad to to have disposed of it.
The moral of the story is: don't let your fantasy of how cool the surprise will be blind you to the reality of how your own kids are really likely to react. If they are not really big on surprises, it is probably not going to be the joyful scene that you hope it will be.
Wow, all your ideas were so thought out and cute! Sorry it didn't work out for your son. Didn't even think of getting an opposite reaction..good to know!