This is so funny to me.
I would not touch the FB issue because the kid was busted by her peers and they have her number now.
The sneaking out is dangerous. I worry for her physical safety, not that she is making out.
I agree with both! Also, as far as I know, there had not been any making out. They were just meeting to talk because some of the other girls were there and saw everything. I think the girl was just wanting attention. Not to say that if it continued it would not have ended up there.
I'd leave it. She'll get hers in time. It will only come back to bite your daughter if you pursue it. Tell your daughter she's learned a valuable lesson. You can't tell who people really are by their internet persona. She's lucky it wasn't a creep.
That's exactly what I told my DD. I also told her that she can be friends with her, but she knows better than to ever trust her, and she needs to watch her back.
I've read most replies and as the mother of a 12 year old I don't know what I would do. But my question is, if this girl made up the name of a boy to open a facebook account, why did your daughter (who doesn't know this boy person) accept the friend request? In which case if I were you, I would be having a long talk with my daughter. Or did this girl use the name of a boy that others knew and that's why everyone accepted the friend request? Then does this boy know what is going on??
ugh, nothing is ever easy with kids
My DD did not accept the friends request at first because there was only one friend in common. It was a brand new account. After a day and seeing all of her friends on there she sent a friends request only to be told off my the "boy" so she was never a "friend" of his. However, she has seen everything posted because it was "hacked" by the girl, or so she says. The password was her name, and her response to that was he must be into me or something.
This boy was supposed to go to our HS but my DD got out every year book for the past four years (other DD just graduated) and his name was no where to be found in any of them.
UPDATE
Anyway, it has been a LONG day. When I got to the school to pick DD up from cheer practice she said that the girl had been crying all day and all through cheer and the coach just rolled her eyes. We think she knows something because the girls had told the reg gym coach (the SENIOR boys mom) all about what has gone on, and all about her son trying to meet with her. She said that she would take care of it. I trust that she will.
My friend and I have decided to sit still for now and see what happens since this happened today. Like Kat77 said, all of her peers know about the account, and know that it's her so she must be very embarrassed buy this. I hope so anyway. She still denies it, but we all know the truth. Had they not found the pictures on her computer and had the wording been different and a few other things, I may have had a doubt myself.
DD and the girls have all been texting tonight and they have all agreed to drop it to stop the drama because she will never admit to it. They just wont trust her anymore, and you better believe they have their eyes & ears open.