mamacatnv
That be a Mum Y'all - a Texas Mum
- Joined
- Nov 7, 2005
Inspired by a recent thread where it became abundantly clear that allowing or helping your child violate the terms of service age rule of 13 for most social media sites is OK and justified.
I think its setting a bad precedence.
I think its a slippery slope.
I think its setting a bad example.
I think its wrong to encourage/allow and or aide a young child to lie or misrepresent their age.
If mom and dad are so heck bent that their kid needs instagram or FB to communicate with "family" or the other myriad of excuses, then the parents should just let the kids use their parents account, not justify violating terms of service aka the rules because they "know what is best for their own kid."
My almost 17 yr old DD says that its better to break the rules and have the parents know than to say no and then the kid just sneaks the accounts. I asked her if she cheated, she said no, she didn't but she knows plenty who did. I believe her, she is way beyond the statue of limitations for something she might have done at 12
I'm all for kids having access to things, I don't believe in censorship, I let my kids read what they want, watch what they want etc. I don't monitor their cells phones or computer usage but we talk about that access often. However, I do believe in rules and I think its wrong to tell my kid its okay to ignore the social media rules established by the host. IMO
What do y'all think?
I think its setting a bad precedence.
I think its a slippery slope.
I think its setting a bad example.
I think its wrong to encourage/allow and or aide a young child to lie or misrepresent their age.
If mom and dad are so heck bent that their kid needs instagram or FB to communicate with "family" or the other myriad of excuses, then the parents should just let the kids use their parents account, not justify violating terms of service aka the rules because they "know what is best for their own kid."
My almost 17 yr old DD says that its better to break the rules and have the parents know than to say no and then the kid just sneaks the accounts. I asked her if she cheated, she said no, she didn't but she knows plenty who did. I believe her, she is way beyond the statue of limitations for something she might have done at 12
I'm all for kids having access to things, I don't believe in censorship, I let my kids read what they want, watch what they want etc. I don't monitor their cells phones or computer usage but we talk about that access often. However, I do believe in rules and I think its wrong to tell my kid its okay to ignore the social media rules established by the host. IMO
What do y'all think?
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