Next time I try and help somebody that is struggling with something I went through and have been going through for 17 years I'll think twice....
MTE.... As I have posted here on several different similar threads... and my son is now a teenager.... BTDT, just like the quote above.
The thing is this: I definitely WILL have second thoughts... But, overall, I would probably post anyhow, because, to me, ANY input and advice that might eventually be considered and HELP THE CHILD, is worth the feed-back from a very overwhelmed and defensive (even almost paranoid) parent/caregiver.
I did want to add this....
It is interesting, the different TAKES on this.
I have also given some well meaning information and advice to another parent, of a child EXACTLY the same age.
In that case, the parent did NOT want to have the necessary evaluation (by a good Ped. NeuroPsych) because they did NOT want to confirm that there precious child might have some developmental issues.
In this case, I am beginning to wonder if this parent/caregiver does not want to consider the advice to have this kind of full evaluation and testing done, because they do NOT want to confirm that the child DOES NOT HAVE any of these issues... and any problems will all be considered the parents and caregivers fault... with no validation and no services 'help'.
Quite the polar opposite.
Anyhow, to the OP and to anyone else dealing with a child who could possibly have these kinds of issues... There is only ONE way to find out. And, that is a full evaluation by a competant and objective Ped. Neurologist. That is the only way to get real answers. Not a 'pre-school teacher'... Not a 'physical therapist'.. Not a 'psychiatrist' (especially for a 4 year old), and not a chat-board.
PS: Just another side note, referring to the comments about 'gait'.... While it wasn't apparent at just 4 years old... My son's gait has been just slightly off. When I had gone to the bookstore, as I described above, and read about this possible diagnosis, devepmental condition... I can remember seeing the word 'gait' mentioned. Come to find out, more recently, after a visit to a new (and excellent) Chiropractor, this is not a neurological thing at all, but an actual physical/orthopedic thing. I am now thinking that there is a definite link, like in the genetics, between these two things, even though at first thought, there would not seem to be any link between neurology and the natural mis-formation of the lower spine. Anyhow, yes, this is now something that is seriously affecting his posture and his entire spinal alignment in a very negative way.