Clotho
Doting on Disney
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- Jun 11, 2004
Like everything in life, its all about your attitude. I totally get why you are upset. Really, most spouses would given your past conversations. Imagine that CL is like a ruby necklace and you really are not a ruby girl. In fact, you kinda really don't like rubies at all and if you had the choice you'd rather have had a sapphire and you've discussed in the past so many time how blue is your favorite color and don't like red at all but still, once he saw the ruby necklace he though how lovely you would look in it.
Or maybe he gave you the gift of a cook but you'd rather have some one clean the house because you like cooking and he knows how much you like cooking
so... that said
Go with the flow. He booked it, now make the best of it.
I still make my own ressies. I, too, enjoy that aspect of it.
Instead of stopping to get groceries, go straight to check in a let yourself feel a little special in the way you get checked in as opposed to having to check in with the masses. Is that alone worth spending CL prices on your trip? Heck no, HOWEVER, let it be the beginning of that little extra pixie dust. It is a nicer way to start.
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Its all in your choice of attitude
First of all, great analogy with the necklace! We have had a couple literal gift times just like that--a necklace in one case, and a purse in another. He has excellent taste usually, but even the best gift givers get it wrong sometimes. So we talked about it and we went to the store to return them and choose something else. Only twice in 15 years...good track record, that guy has!
By reminding me of the times he graciously understood a mis-gifting, compared to his digging his heels in on this one, I think you and others are right that this is as much about his wish as my birthday. So I will roll with it.
Yes, pixie dust. Focus on that, I shall. But they can pry my trip planning from my cold, dead hands. If ADR's were still lots of phone calls, I think I might have used the IPO this trip. But My Disney Experience online makes it super easy. There is only one ressie we couldn't get online, and when I contacted the IPO folks to see if they could get it for us they couldn't either. We are on a waiting list, though, which is one thing I couldn't do for myself. I will chalk that up to pending-pixie dust!
And of course, the reason I started this thread is BECAUSE I want to shift my attitude. Thanks for your help!
Okay, my 2 cents --
1. Your husband clearly has always wanted to try Club Level -- and he thought this was the trip to try it. It seems he is a loving, caring and special hubs and so I would go ahead and indulge him.
You got him all figured out!
The morning breakfast is nice -- and so relaxing not to have to worry about where we are going to eat breakfast or just eat yogurt out of the fridge (after a stop at the grocery store). Although we love table service dining and do it for lunch and dinner with wine and the whole nine yards, we really hate table service breakfast -- the places are always full of kids who can't wait to get to the parks and are running around like chickens with their head cut off in anticipation.
Totally agree with these sentiments! Hubby's favorite meal of the day is breakfast, and if he could have eggs and bacon and skillet potatoes for every meal he just might. It is one thing that bums us out at WDW is not having great options for TS breakfast.
4. One final tip -- if your mother and sister are staying in the same resort but not Club Level -- put them on your reservation. It will cost about $50 more per night if they are both adults (perhaps you mom or sister will reimburse you for that). Then, they will have Club Level room keys and can enjoy the lounge offerings and concierge assistance, but stay in their own room. I have also had an experience where the concierge asked if we had family elsewhere in the resort and encouraged us to bring them to the lounge. But, I wouldn't count on that. If you put them on your reservation -- totally legal and above board You can enjoy breakfast, evening offerings, wine, etc. together with them. That's worth $25 per person per day IMO.
I am not sure how that would work out. If the same name were on multiple reservations, wouldn't that be a red flag or something for the staff? I am willing to do it if it is truly legit and doesn't cause the computer to go "Hey WAIT A MINUTE! Cancel those duplicate reservations..."
I will. Thanks!Upshot -- Go and enjoy, encourage your hubs to live his fantasy and you may find you love it too.