OK, for all those who said, "I was spanked and I spanked my kids, and they ended up just fine", I'll add my corollary:
I was spanked, and I DIDN'T spank my kids, and they ended up just fine.
Yes, I do remember the times I was spanked. You know, I DON'T remember what I was spanked for.
But what I DO remember was how hurt and upset I was that my parents, who I loved more than anyone in the world, could stike me, intentionally hurt me, and make me suffer.
I swore I would never do that to my own kids.
And I never did.
I was spanked, and I DIDN'T spank my kids, and they ended up just fine.
Yes, I do remember the times I was spanked. You know, I DON'T remember what I was spanked for.
But what I DO remember was how hurt and upset I was that my parents, who I loved more than anyone in the world, could stike me, intentionally hurt me, and make me suffer.
I swore I would never do that to my own kids.
And I never did.