mattsdragon
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Not everyone is comfortable with that type of confrontation, and as someone who has been in customer service, both as a front line service associate, and as a manager, that is why there is a chain of command. Furthermore, it is not vengeful or backstabby at all, it is why this person has a supervisor. It maintains accountability. If they were rude once, they WILL be rude again, and better to nip that in the bud on the first incident. If this person just gets a smart alecky response from a guest, but no reprecussions, they aren't going to stop. If there is no consequence the behavior will not change.You may be misunderstanding what I wrote or I was not clear. For that, I'm sorry and offer this clarification: I never said that wanting to be treated well is vengeful or "backstabby" and my response wasn't really targeted towards your story in particular. I was stating that the people who have a problem with a CM and don't say anything to that person are being backstabby and vengeful when the only action they take is to report them to someone else. It accomplishes nothing except possibly creating a punishment for the CM later. What could possibly be vengeful or backstabby about wanting nice treatment?
This is correct, too often people act like they are an island, and that attitude is horrible as well. However, they are paying customers just the same, and it is good business practice to have your customer treated in a respectful manner, if they aren't, you need to correct your employees so they do show the proper respect to the paying customers. . .otherwise, they won't pay again.directed back to the thread in general once again: I think everyone will have a much better time at WDW (and life in general) if they can just stop with the mindset that they're the customer and therefore the most important person in the room.
This strikes me as very naive, which can be admirable, but is frequently counter-productive.Someone earlier in the thread had mentioned that if a CM doesn't like the heat or the pressure (I'm paraphrasing), they shouldn't work at WDW at all. Well, isn't this a job that's hard to get? Having it implies that the CM wants it. When they're performing that job in a way you don't believe is correct, they probably don't want to be doing it that way. They probably, at the end of the day, feel as badly about it as you might.
But where is the accountability for the rude CM then? You have to realize that with A LOT of people, this type of confrontation is looked at as milquetoast and enabling.These are people with lives. They have families. They have interests, triumphs, and ultimately hardships. Everyone is a complicated ball of circumstance and a slave to their emotions. It's entirely possible that these people were having a bad day (or a few) and were emotionally compromised. For that reason, I wonder about approaching these types of employees with a response similar to "Hey, I didn't really appreciate that because ______. I know you wouldn't want to do that on purpose, so I thought you should know that it happened. How are you doing today?"
As I said, if some CM did that to me, I'd call them out on it immediatly, that is how I was taught to respond to the behavior of a bully, but some aren't used to responding that way. If they still feel as if the person's behavior needs to be addressed, then going to the supervisor is the appropriate way. That behavior isn't a single case, that type of behavior builds over a long period of time as the CM has been able to get away with things. If they aren't brought to the attention of management, then they will continue to escalate until something very bad happens.
And you don't find the behavior of the CM appalling? Rude, insensitive, and bullish behavior needs to be addressed, otherwise, you embolden the abuser. If this person really has hopes and dreams and rainbows and fairies, well they better behave like their job matters to them, because it's hard to pay for dreams from the dole queue.The common criticism to this entire thought is likely that we spend so much money to go to WDW and therefore anything that is not perfect is unacceptable. Who cares what the CMs have going on in their personal lives? They're just there for me since I'm paying to be there. They should just suck it up and deal with it at home. When they're at work they're there for me!
Is that really an appropriate way to approach the world when we're the customer? I find it appalling, to be honest.
And allowing this type of behavior to go unchecked is even more naive. And making excuses for that sort of behavior is dangerous enabling. I know that "feeling" people want to believe that people really want to do right, but what I've seen in my life experience is the exact opposite. Many people do want to do right, many people struggle to make ends meet and don't want to get in trouble (these tend however, to be the ones who aren't rude to GUESTS), and some people are just jerks. Don't make excuses for them, if you want to be a victim, then be a victim, but don't call others vengeful bullies because they don't accept this type of behavior.I'm not suggesting this is what caused the behaviors mentioned at TT, but isn't it possible that a CM just received terrible news and it has emotionally compromised them? Would they be delivering the best service under those circumstances? What if their supervisor won't let them go home and deal with it? What if they need to remain at work in order to pay the bills (like everyone else)? I'm not suggesting that it's acceptable. I'm not suggesting that a CM should be able to do and say whatever they want in the event of some personal problem.
What I AM suggesting is that we really shouldn't expect that these human beings to stop being human beings just because we're paying to visit WDW. They have lives and circumstances and to suggest that they need to forget everything when they're at work is absolutely stupid. It's a nice goal, but it's naive.
One of the appeals of WDW is how it lets you leave behind the problems of life for a little while. We shouldn't forget that when we're there we're interacting with a lot of people who aren't leaving behind the problems of life.
And, in the end of the day, WDW is a business, they provide a service (for a large amount of money) for their guests. It is not unreasonable to expect to be treated with respect and dignity. As a supervisor, I need to know when my people screw up, just as much as I need to know when they are doing well. Praise publicly, chastise privately, but at the same time, make sure the people that work for me know that regardless of what they are experiencing, I expect professionalism at all times, and will accept nothing below that.
I certainly wouldn't lower my standards, which is what you are suggesting.