Hi all! Longtime disboards lurker, first time writing anything! I am happy to say that I am now engaged to my boyfriend of seven years, and literally one of the first things he said that night was "we have to get married in Disney!" Disney is our favorite place in the world, we've been there on two big trips and four day trips over the years and it just seems like the most magical place on earth to exchange our vows.
Background on us though, we are 23 and 25 so still fairly young, just moved in together three months ago, and are in no rush to get married right away. I've always wanted a wedding in the fall/winter, which would be perfect in WDW since I'm not a fan of heat/summer weddings. We're from NY, so if we got married in FL we could stretch it out through the winter months easily. Our target date is from fall 2014 through March 2015-ish, so we have a while.
However.. when I told my family this was something we were considering (our families are both all in NY) my sister and mom acted completely disgusted. My sister told me flat out her school schedule "may not allow her to come" (she is in school until May of 2015) and couldn't believe I wouldn't wait for her to graduate before having my wedding. My mom said she thought Disney was a bad idea. My sister also said my cousins wouldn't come as it would be rude for me to expect people to pay money to fly to my wedding. Needless to say, I was hurt and upset. I never said I was 100% getting married in WDW, I just said it would be a nice idea, and they totally shut me down during what should be the most exciting moment of my life.
Have any of you dealt with situations like this when you mentioned getting married in WDW? I now dread the thought of even planning a wedding because of how badly they reacted.
Background on us though, we are 23 and 25 so still fairly young, just moved in together three months ago, and are in no rush to get married right away. I've always wanted a wedding in the fall/winter, which would be perfect in WDW since I'm not a fan of heat/summer weddings. We're from NY, so if we got married in FL we could stretch it out through the winter months easily. Our target date is from fall 2014 through March 2015-ish, so we have a while.
However.. when I told my family this was something we were considering (our families are both all in NY) my sister and mom acted completely disgusted. My sister told me flat out her school schedule "may not allow her to come" (she is in school until May of 2015) and couldn't believe I wouldn't wait for her to graduate before having my wedding. My mom said she thought Disney was a bad idea. My sister also said my cousins wouldn't come as it would be rude for me to expect people to pay money to fly to my wedding. Needless to say, I was hurt and upset. I never said I was 100% getting married in WDW, I just said it would be a nice idea, and they totally shut me down during what should be the most exciting moment of my life.
Have any of you dealt with situations like this when you mentioned getting married in WDW? I now dread the thought of even planning a wedding because of how badly they reacted.