Here is a preface:
My DD is a single mother, the father of my GDD (Josh) denied he is the father and wanted nothing to do with her or DD even after GDD was born. Josh is friends with the husband of one of my DD's friends - Nina.
So fast forward, the dance school that I go to (owned by my best friend) recently changed locations. Had a lot of work to do at the new building before classes could start. I guess Josh has been helping out at the dance school with the friends of my DD. The friend's daughter goes to the dance school. So they have all been there to help at the dance school and Josh has been helping too. For a while Josh was not allowed to come over to their house and it has only been recently that he has started going over there.
DD is in a relationship with another young man and they are living together. So Wednesday, DD & I are running errands and she tells me about a visit from Nina the day before. Nina tells her that Josh is planning on going for custody of my GDD. I guess others at the dance school are going to back him up and stand with him (who they barely know) in court against my DD (who they have known for years). I call my best friend and ask her what is going on. She tells me that we have nothing to worry about. She has had a talk with Josh and he only wants to get to know my GDD - his DD. He knows he is not in a position to take care of her himself.
I get to the dance school last night and my best friend has discussed our conversation with Nina. So now she is mad at my DD because supposedly their conversation was "turned around". She said that she never said Josh was going to go for custody of my GDD. My DD was very upset about the converstation she had. I don't trust this woman because of other things that have happened, so I know what she is telling me is false. Others have heard some of the conversation with Josh and so I am getting some verification to the original story from my DD.
I am just so tired of trusting people with a confidence and then having that confidence betrayed. I can't say that this is the first time my best friend has done this to me, so I just limit what I tell her. I guess I didn't think that she would talk to the person who had passed the info on to my DD.
My best friend did say that I should sit down and have a one on one conversation with Josh, which I will do. Another friend said that he is not the same person she originally met.
I put a note on FB that said I am tired of the drama and from now on I am going to discuss my problems with the only friends I can trust - my DIS friends. This way I don't have to worry about someone discussing my business with the wrong person.
Sorry this is so long, I just needed to vent.
My DD is a single mother, the father of my GDD (Josh) denied he is the father and wanted nothing to do with her or DD even after GDD was born. Josh is friends with the husband of one of my DD's friends - Nina.
So fast forward, the dance school that I go to (owned by my best friend) recently changed locations. Had a lot of work to do at the new building before classes could start. I guess Josh has been helping out at the dance school with the friends of my DD. The friend's daughter goes to the dance school. So they have all been there to help at the dance school and Josh has been helping too. For a while Josh was not allowed to come over to their house and it has only been recently that he has started going over there.
DD is in a relationship with another young man and they are living together. So Wednesday, DD & I are running errands and she tells me about a visit from Nina the day before. Nina tells her that Josh is planning on going for custody of my GDD. I guess others at the dance school are going to back him up and stand with him (who they barely know) in court against my DD (who they have known for years). I call my best friend and ask her what is going on. She tells me that we have nothing to worry about. She has had a talk with Josh and he only wants to get to know my GDD - his DD. He knows he is not in a position to take care of her himself.
I get to the dance school last night and my best friend has discussed our conversation with Nina. So now she is mad at my DD because supposedly their conversation was "turned around". She said that she never said Josh was going to go for custody of my GDD. My DD was very upset about the converstation she had. I don't trust this woman because of other things that have happened, so I know what she is telling me is false. Others have heard some of the conversation with Josh and so I am getting some verification to the original story from my DD.
I am just so tired of trusting people with a confidence and then having that confidence betrayed. I can't say that this is the first time my best friend has done this to me, so I just limit what I tell her. I guess I didn't think that she would talk to the person who had passed the info on to my DD.
My best friend did say that I should sit down and have a one on one conversation with Josh, which I will do. Another friend said that he is not the same person she originally met.
I put a note on FB that said I am tired of the drama and from now on I am going to discuss my problems with the only friends I can trust - my DIS friends. This way I don't have to worry about someone discussing my business with the wrong person.
Sorry this is so long, I just needed to vent.