So yesterday I was ready to give up on
DCL altogether. I was on the DCL forum of a different website and was so appalled at how nasty some of the members were, it actually turned me off to DCL. People from other cruise lines actually convinced me to leave that DCL forum and join you guys here, with the promise that it is much more civil on this site! Hopefully, the crossover members between that site and this one aren't the obnoxious ones! As a gift for our upcoming 15th anniversary, my husband surprised me with a family reunion cruise! We will be cruising with lots of family, hopefully in November 2014. There will be 17 or 18 of us, depending on whether my brother brings his baby girl. Right now he is not planning on bringing her. That said, the ages and genders of the kids coming along will be, 4 (boy), 5 (girl), 8(boy), 9(boy), 10(girl), 10(boy), and 12 (girl). From what I am reading, it seems like Disney may actually be the best line for us. I hope it is okay that I have a ton of questions. Some of them may seem a little stupid, 1. Is it true that the 4 yr old will be able to go to the kids club with the 10 yr olds? That would be great for my 4 yr old, but wouldn't the 10yr olds be bored if they are stuck in the club with a bunch of 4 yr olds? How does Disney handle that? 2. I was told you can bring wine onboard. Can I bring alcohol too (Bacardi Limon)? My husband would be so excited if we can! 3. The only ship that wouldn't work for us is the Dream because we would want to go for at least 5 to 7 days. I am thinking about the Western Caribbean on the Magic or Wonder, or the Eastern Caribbean on the Fantasy. My parents have been on cruises before and I know they would prefer the smaller Wonder to the larger Fantasy. I know the Magic is the Wonder's sister ship that recently went through a reimagining. Did they make it larger? If not, that might be the best of both worlds. Smaller ship, but updated! 4. We will probably split up at times, but I would love to have one day where we could all go on an excursion together. Are there any you could recommend that would be suitable for kids and adults? 5. Are the shows enjoyable for grown-ups? They seem to be more geared for kids. 6. Not that this is a deal breaker, but are there late night snack options? 7. Are the balcony rooms safe for kids? I have images of my 4 year old sneaking out there and falling in the ocean. We need a balcony because my husband gets a little claustrophobic if he has no access to outside. Not debilitating or anything, but the last thing I want is for him to be stressed on a vacation! 8. Can you bring a stroller? My son doesn't typically use one, but it seems like a safer way to get through all those crowds. Also, if we are doing a lot of walking on the islands it may "speed things up!" 9. Can I put money in an onboard account before we go as a gift? 10. If I wanted my 12 year old to be able to buy things on my room, can I give her permission somehow? 11. I once read where a child went missing for a while from the kids area. I believe she was found IN the kids area, but her GPS bracelet had malfunctioned and they couldn't locate her. I assume this is very uncommon. Has anyone else had bad experiences with the kids club? That's all I can think of right now. thanks!