GooniesAndy
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This cruise has been booked for almost a year-and-a-half and we are finally two weeks out! I booked this cruise hoping that my boys' dad, who is an alcoholic, would be able to accomplish two years of sobriety and welcomed back into a more normal role in their lives. Because of that, I decided not to tell them about it, in case things didn't work out. They have had a lot of disappointments and I didn't want something that should be special to be yet another one!
Sadly, this did not happen and I was all set to just remove him from our reservation and proceed as a threesome when it hit me that my father-in-law, their beloved Granddad, might like to come along. He has mentioned in the past that cruising is of zero interest to him, but I knew that the absolute top thing that IS of interest to him is the boys. When I invited him to come, he immediately accepted and he has been getting more and more excited about the trip. I hope he loves it!
Our cast this trip is much larger than our Panama Canal cruise, which was just me and the boys. We will be traveling with my sister's family and I am thrilled that some friends we met on the WBPC are also booked for this cruise, along with a bunch of their family and friends.
Meet the cast, nearly all of whom hail from sunny San Diego!
Me:
Erin, single mom, aspiring writer, and eternal planner
Favorite Disney character: Dug from Up, though Mary Poppins and Belle are runners-up
Elliott:
9 (almost 10), lover of video games and Pokemon
Favorite Disney character: Stitch
Oliver:
7, also loves video games, my grandma would have called him a "pip"
Favorite Disney character: Robin Hood
Larry/Granddad:
Retired USMC Colonel, loves those grandkids like crazy
Supporting players:
Meghan, my younger sister, a brilliant mind and medical writer.
Jason, my brother-in-law, amazing carpenter and artist.
Lucas, 7, my nephew who loves Minecraft and Pokemon.
Alison, 3, my niece who makes me watch Tangled and Frozen (Elsa fan here) over and over whenever I babysit. Also known as "FINALLY A GIRL! PRINCESS DRESSES!"
Ming, Jason's mother who will be traveling with them. She will be coming all the way from Virginia for the trip.
Christa, Ryan, and Ava, 11. We met them on our Panama Canal cruise and quickly became friends. They live in San Diego, so we actually get to see them!
Ben, Hannah, and Sawyer, 4. Christa's sister and her family.
Greg, Dawn, and Lily, 5 (I think!). Friends of Christa and Ryan.
So, this is a five-night Halloween on the High Seas cruise on the Disney Wonder. It leaves from San Diego on October 18 and will stop in Ensenada and Cabo San Lucas. At this point I anticipate staying on the ship in Ensenada, though I could be persuaded to go ashore if a tempting prospect arises. In Cabo we are just planning to hop on a water taxi and hit the beach and eat some tacos. I know that Jason wants to do some snorkeling, so hopefully we can make that happen. We have brunch reservations at Palo and I am organizing private mixology sessions for our meet-up group. It should be a busy and fun week!
Can I just say that keeping this cruise a secret for so long has been insanely hard? It was ok leading up our May cruise, because I could easily cover up any misspeaks and I was barely even thinking about October. Now? Oh my gosh. I've lost count of how many times I have almost said "on the cruise." Meghan's family knows they are going, but their surprise is that we will be there, too. I've also been able to use their cruise as a cover-up, but it's been close a few times.
The other thing? Oh my gosh, I am so excited about this and I want to tell them so much! My kids absolutely love surprises, so I know this is going to go over well. It will be amazing and there will be screaming and joy and all of that, but I'm dying over here wanting to tell them!
I am planning on waiting until we are at the port to let them know. My fantasy was that they will (inevitably) say, "I wish we were going!" and I could just say, "...let's go!" I've been saying random little things here and there to prep for the surprise. When the Wonder arrived here day before yesterday for its first cruise of the season, we went up the street to a park where we could look across the harbor and gaze upon her. I told the boys that when Meghan and family are heading out, we can go over there to wish them "Bon voyage." My dad will drop us off and can unload our luggage, which will have been placed secretly in the back of our van, once we walk away. The boys don't understand port security, so I told them we will go as far as we are allowed, short of getting onto the ship. I'm hoping to make it all the way into the terminal before springing the surprise on them. I got a GoPro for my birthday, so I will be wearing it to capture all of the many special moments. I'm hoping that I can even learn to do live streaming so that we can broadcast from the port.
Prepping for the trip, as a result of all of this, is a bit complicated! I will be doing all of our packing while the kids are in school, printing of new magnets, making of t-shirts, etc., etc. I had to turn in study contracts for school without the boys' signatures on them, which made me very nervous. However, both of their teachers are totally on board with us going... on board, and I will arrange to pick up their homework without them knowing about it. I am a crazy planner and have always been very focused on little details, so hopefully that is in my favor here.
One thing that is different this time around is that we will be going on a Halloween cruise and therefore costumes are in order. Even Granddad has procured pirate and Halloween costumes! I decided that the boys and I will wear Disney-related costumes. Last year Oliver was the Hatbox Ghost, from the Haunted Mansion ride at Disneyland, and even at the time I knew it would come along on this cruise with us. Elliott has an Iron Patriot costume that fits him, so that will be what he wears. For me, I decided to start from scratch and have been sewing up a storm for my "Disgust" costume, from Inside Out.
In addition, I am making the boys' actual Halloween costumes, a Minnie-themed outfit for Alison, and some pieces for my parents' costumes, which they need the night before we leave. My non-cruise "to do" list is insane, you guys. Add to it Cub Scout popcorn selling (ending October 31) and general Halloween decoration and prep, and lying in a lounger by the pool with a Drink of the Day in hand is looking particularly good! A fun thing that will be taking two days away from my prep schedule is a trip to Disneyland next weekend, for our annual Halloween visit, but again...that is two of my thirteen-and-a-half days. I guess I should stop typing and start sewing, decorating, and quality-timing with the kids!
Sadly, this did not happen and I was all set to just remove him from our reservation and proceed as a threesome when it hit me that my father-in-law, their beloved Granddad, might like to come along. He has mentioned in the past that cruising is of zero interest to him, but I knew that the absolute top thing that IS of interest to him is the boys. When I invited him to come, he immediately accepted and he has been getting more and more excited about the trip. I hope he loves it!
Our cast this trip is much larger than our Panama Canal cruise, which was just me and the boys. We will be traveling with my sister's family and I am thrilled that some friends we met on the WBPC are also booked for this cruise, along with a bunch of their family and friends.
Meet the cast, nearly all of whom hail from sunny San Diego!
Me:
Erin, single mom, aspiring writer, and eternal planner
Favorite Disney character: Dug from Up, though Mary Poppins and Belle are runners-up

Elliott:
9 (almost 10), lover of video games and Pokemon
Favorite Disney character: Stitch

Oliver:
7, also loves video games, my grandma would have called him a "pip"
Favorite Disney character: Robin Hood

Larry/Granddad:
Retired USMC Colonel, loves those grandkids like crazy
Supporting players:
Meghan, my younger sister, a brilliant mind and medical writer.
Jason, my brother-in-law, amazing carpenter and artist.
Lucas, 7, my nephew who loves Minecraft and Pokemon.
Alison, 3, my niece who makes me watch Tangled and Frozen (Elsa fan here) over and over whenever I babysit. Also known as "FINALLY A GIRL! PRINCESS DRESSES!"
Ming, Jason's mother who will be traveling with them. She will be coming all the way from Virginia for the trip.
Christa, Ryan, and Ava, 11. We met them on our Panama Canal cruise and quickly became friends. They live in San Diego, so we actually get to see them!
Ben, Hannah, and Sawyer, 4. Christa's sister and her family.
Greg, Dawn, and Lily, 5 (I think!). Friends of Christa and Ryan.
So, this is a five-night Halloween on the High Seas cruise on the Disney Wonder. It leaves from San Diego on October 18 and will stop in Ensenada and Cabo San Lucas. At this point I anticipate staying on the ship in Ensenada, though I could be persuaded to go ashore if a tempting prospect arises. In Cabo we are just planning to hop on a water taxi and hit the beach and eat some tacos. I know that Jason wants to do some snorkeling, so hopefully we can make that happen. We have brunch reservations at Palo and I am organizing private mixology sessions for our meet-up group. It should be a busy and fun week!
Can I just say that keeping this cruise a secret for so long has been insanely hard? It was ok leading up our May cruise, because I could easily cover up any misspeaks and I was barely even thinking about October. Now? Oh my gosh. I've lost count of how many times I have almost said "on the cruise." Meghan's family knows they are going, but their surprise is that we will be there, too. I've also been able to use their cruise as a cover-up, but it's been close a few times.
The other thing? Oh my gosh, I am so excited about this and I want to tell them so much! My kids absolutely love surprises, so I know this is going to go over well. It will be amazing and there will be screaming and joy and all of that, but I'm dying over here wanting to tell them!
I am planning on waiting until we are at the port to let them know. My fantasy was that they will (inevitably) say, "I wish we were going!" and I could just say, "...let's go!" I've been saying random little things here and there to prep for the surprise. When the Wonder arrived here day before yesterday for its first cruise of the season, we went up the street to a park where we could look across the harbor and gaze upon her. I told the boys that when Meghan and family are heading out, we can go over there to wish them "Bon voyage." My dad will drop us off and can unload our luggage, which will have been placed secretly in the back of our van, once we walk away. The boys don't understand port security, so I told them we will go as far as we are allowed, short of getting onto the ship. I'm hoping to make it all the way into the terminal before springing the surprise on them. I got a GoPro for my birthday, so I will be wearing it to capture all of the many special moments. I'm hoping that I can even learn to do live streaming so that we can broadcast from the port.
Prepping for the trip, as a result of all of this, is a bit complicated! I will be doing all of our packing while the kids are in school, printing of new magnets, making of t-shirts, etc., etc. I had to turn in study contracts for school without the boys' signatures on them, which made me very nervous. However, both of their teachers are totally on board with us going... on board, and I will arrange to pick up their homework without them knowing about it. I am a crazy planner and have always been very focused on little details, so hopefully that is in my favor here.
One thing that is different this time around is that we will be going on a Halloween cruise and therefore costumes are in order. Even Granddad has procured pirate and Halloween costumes! I decided that the boys and I will wear Disney-related costumes. Last year Oliver was the Hatbox Ghost, from the Haunted Mansion ride at Disneyland, and even at the time I knew it would come along on this cruise with us. Elliott has an Iron Patriot costume that fits him, so that will be what he wears. For me, I decided to start from scratch and have been sewing up a storm for my "Disgust" costume, from Inside Out.
In addition, I am making the boys' actual Halloween costumes, a Minnie-themed outfit for Alison, and some pieces for my parents' costumes, which they need the night before we leave. My non-cruise "to do" list is insane, you guys. Add to it Cub Scout popcorn selling (ending October 31) and general Halloween decoration and prep, and lying in a lounger by the pool with a Drink of the Day in hand is looking particularly good! A fun thing that will be taking two days away from my prep schedule is a trip to Disneyland next weekend, for our annual Halloween visit, but again...that is two of my thirteen-and-a-half days. I guess I should stop typing and start sewing, decorating, and quality-timing with the kids!
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