What if she had been frightened and cried? Would she have received a detention for that as well?
I fully understand the need for complete silence - however, at such a young age it's difficult to control ones emotions during such a frightening situation.. (And even more so if it's a "first time event"..) I remember as a child getting the nervous giggles at funerals.. Rather than crying, I giggled.. I meant no disrespect - that's just how my particular emotions came out in an uncomfortable situation..
I agree that mom should explain to DD "why" they need complete silence during a threatening situation, but if this has not happened before - nor have there been drills to teach these young children the proper protocol - I think issuing a detention right out of the gate was a little extreme..
I agree with you.. Great post.