DebIreland
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- Feb 5, 2005
Oh my goodness, I just want to say I really feel for you and I can imagine it's very stressful. All you're trying to do is share a wonderful holiday with your family, a very positive thing and something that brings families closer together.
We're going in October too - my boys have one week off school and I'm keeping them out of school 3 days prior to their week off and 5 days afterwards. I do feel a bit nervous about telling the principal but, other than some eye-rolling, I think we'll be ok. I kept them out for 5 days last year and he was ok about it, not too pleased, but ok. The boys' school is culturally diverse and lots of children visit relatives abroad regularly so it's certainly not unusual for children to miss school.
Over here (Ireland) I know that once a child has 20 abscences the Department of Education are notified and they initiate an investigation. However, I believe that an explained absence like a holiday would only lead to an investigation if it happened regularly.
If I'm honest, I do feel a bit bad keeping them out for 8 days especially as it will be my 11 year old's last year in primary school but it will be near the start rather than the end of the school year and also, I wouldn't keep him out in secondary school so it's our last chance to get there again without enduring crippling heat (as we also have a 2 year old that makes a difference).
I plan on telling the school on the first day of term - 30th August and I'll have a letter ready for both teachers too then. Honestly, if they say no, or if the rules have tightened up, I'll be stumped....
I hope you can work it out.
We're going in October too - my boys have one week off school and I'm keeping them out of school 3 days prior to their week off and 5 days afterwards. I do feel a bit nervous about telling the principal but, other than some eye-rolling, I think we'll be ok. I kept them out for 5 days last year and he was ok about it, not too pleased, but ok. The boys' school is culturally diverse and lots of children visit relatives abroad regularly so it's certainly not unusual for children to miss school.
Over here (Ireland) I know that once a child has 20 abscences the Department of Education are notified and they initiate an investigation. However, I believe that an explained absence like a holiday would only lead to an investigation if it happened regularly.
If I'm honest, I do feel a bit bad keeping them out for 8 days especially as it will be my 11 year old's last year in primary school but it will be near the start rather than the end of the school year and also, I wouldn't keep him out in secondary school so it's our last chance to get there again without enduring crippling heat (as we also have a 2 year old that makes a difference).
I plan on telling the school on the first day of term - 30th August and I'll have a letter ready for both teachers too then. Honestly, if they say no, or if the rules have tightened up, I'll be stumped....
I hope you can work it out.