Not sure if you just worded this weird or if you're recommending it for everyone. For me, this would have been the absolute WORST of both worlds. An income small enough not to be of significant benefit to me or my family AND a time commitment that curtailed my flexibility in other areas. No thanks.
I'm uneasy with women being defined by the fact that they are mothers - whether SAHM or WM. Raising our kids is perhaps the most important thing we'll ever do, but it's still something we DO, it's not an identity. I think the fact that it has become one is what makes these discussions so intensely personal and contentious.
I see what you're saying. Yes, raising kids is the most important thing that I do, but it's not the only thing that I do. And I hate that it always comes up about women, and nothing about men. My husband is a very involved parent. He's the one who brought our son to his games (because he enjoyed watching games) the things like dr appts and being home with a sick kid usually fell on him, because he had more flexibility with his work schedule. When the kids were babies you could usually find him wearing the baby in the snugli because he enjoyed wearing the baby and having his hands free. He's a natural caretaker and a phenomenal dad. But he is never defined by the fact that he's a dad. There isn't anyone judging him by his decision to hold a job while also being a dad. No one asks him to account for his time or demand answers on when he does his share of the housework or ask how much quality time he spent with the kids each day. He's allowed to be a great dad all by itself, without it becoming his identity.