LOTS of folks in the same boat for something they might have been looking forward to. Many couldn't change their trips and missed out on ROL. I think about Club Villain, AWESOME event that I booked a trip around but most can not do that. They run it the slower months and many who want to see, but can only travel school holidays are shut out. The best fireworks shows are July 4 and NYE, both times so crowded that some of us can not go. Always something down for refurb, some the same time every year - like Splash that we missed winter after winter trip. ROL might be open by trip, if not I'd focus on something else being a special event for you.
Glad my kids, all adults, still want to go to Disney - even if they didn't - I'd still be going. I think it's way better as adults than it was when the kids were younger.