Mickey'snewestfan
DIS Veteran
- Joined
- Apr 26, 2005
My kid has been 14, and thus "work eligible" for 2 weeks, so I'm still new to parenting someone's employee. I want your opinion as to whether I've now ascended to a new level of "helicopter mom" behavior. Tell me the truth!
Here are the facts of the case:
1) Kid has a brand new job as a junior soccer ref. Season starts Saturday. Games are assigned by email. Someone emails out a list of times and you reply "I'd like to do X, Y, or Z".
2) Kid has stated a desire to ref 2 or 3 games, but has missed out on all but one because he didn't reply fast enough. By fast enough, I mean within 2 or 3 hours. Kid is clearly disappointed about that.
3) Kid has an "official" email, made with his own name, that he knows I check regularly. It's for things like school applications, and this job. He uses it for things he wants me to see, or that I have asked him to see. Plus another email with a name like "Cartooncharacter@ . . . " that he uses to communicate with friends. I don't check that one.
4) Today I checked that email during the school day and there was an email that said "you can have X and Y timeslots on Saturday, but you need to let me know fast".
5) I sent back an email that said "Kid's mom here, he's at school but I can confirm he wants those times. Thanks so much!"
Should I be ashamed of myself?
Here are the facts of the case:
1) Kid has a brand new job as a junior soccer ref. Season starts Saturday. Games are assigned by email. Someone emails out a list of times and you reply "I'd like to do X, Y, or Z".
2) Kid has stated a desire to ref 2 or 3 games, but has missed out on all but one because he didn't reply fast enough. By fast enough, I mean within 2 or 3 hours. Kid is clearly disappointed about that.
3) Kid has an "official" email, made with his own name, that he knows I check regularly. It's for things like school applications, and this job. He uses it for things he wants me to see, or that I have asked him to see. Plus another email with a name like "Cartooncharacter@ . . . " that he uses to communicate with friends. I don't check that one.
4) Today I checked that email during the school day and there was an email that said "you can have X and Y timeslots on Saturday, but you need to let me know fast".
5) I sent back an email that said "Kid's mom here, he's at school but I can confirm he wants those times. Thanks so much!"
Should I be ashamed of myself?